Well, that's what being adults is all about. Work,doing chores,paying the bills, be a pain in the ass to kids, watch lame tvshows and complaining about everything going wrong. Which means complaining about money because in the masses imaginary everything can be better if you have more money. So they scheme to get some extra money without working to earn it. What else is being an adult all about anyway? Nobody ever said it is all fun and games. Right?
What's a complete adult anyway? Somebody who always knows what's the right thing to do? Somebody who goes on/off responsible/irresponsible?
Or it is just about age? You have more than eighteen years old? You are legally an adult. Whether you like it or not you have to take your responsabilities.
There is no getting out of things by saying: but I am not a complete adult!
There is no such A thing as a " true adult". You are just seeing the models around you as an example of "true adulthood" but that's not the only way of living your life. It's probably your only chance, the only thing most people around you
Expect you to be. Wouldn't it be better to just sit there, analyze your situation,ponder your chances, and come up with a long term plan to stick with that doesn't involve becoming like the people you so clearly despise? Iike: I do not wanna become like them. But that does not mean I am going to have to keep living like a teenager for the rest of my life. What is it I want?
I want more friends I can rely on, and the chance to do something fun and basically live a life that is not boring and crappy like the ones of the people I had a chance to observe. How can I get that? That's what being adult is really all about. Think about what you want and find out ways to get there taking into consideration the fact that if you fuck up, you are goong to find something else on your hands and it will probably be a gargantuan amount of pigshit.
So you know: goal. Means to achieve it. Alternative course of actions. Also known as plan b. Conditions you feel like putting up with and you can withstand. Possible alternative outcomes. Probable unforseen events. Obstacles standing in my way. How do I get around them? Can I get around them? Or moan them down? What can I do and what I cannot do. These are all the things you mist be thinking about. Whether you are planning on becoming a boring fatso spending his days like every other adult you have seen, or you plan on becoming a jolly funny friendly guy who's fourty years old and still plays videogames and whistles at teenagers passing by.
Is it normal that my biggest fear is becoming a true adult?
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Well, that's what being adults is all about. Work,doing chores,paying the bills, be a pain in the ass to kids, watch lame tvshows and complaining about everything going wrong. Which means complaining about money because in the masses imaginary everything can be better if you have more money. So they scheme to get some extra money without working to earn it. What else is being an adult all about anyway? Nobody ever said it is all fun and games. Right?
What's a complete adult anyway? Somebody who always knows what's the right thing to do? Somebody who goes on/off responsible/irresponsible?
Or it is just about age? You have more than eighteen years old? You are legally an adult. Whether you like it or not you have to take your responsabilities.
There is no getting out of things by saying: but I am not a complete adult!
There is no such A thing as a " true adult". You are just seeing the models around you as an example of "true adulthood" but that's not the only way of living your life. It's probably your only chance, the only thing most people around you
Expect you to be. Wouldn't it be better to just sit there, analyze your situation,ponder your chances, and come up with a long term plan to stick with that doesn't involve becoming like the people you so clearly despise? Iike: I do not wanna become like them. But that does not mean I am going to have to keep living like a teenager for the rest of my life. What is it I want?
I want more friends I can rely on, and the chance to do something fun and basically live a life that is not boring and crappy like the ones of the people I had a chance to observe. How can I get that? That's what being adult is really all about. Think about what you want and find out ways to get there taking into consideration the fact that if you fuck up, you are goong to find something else on your hands and it will probably be a gargantuan amount of pigshit.
So you know: goal. Means to achieve it. Alternative course of actions. Also known as plan b. Conditions you feel like putting up with and you can withstand. Possible alternative outcomes. Probable unforseen events. Obstacles standing in my way. How do I get around them? Can I get around them? Or moan them down? What can I do and what I cannot do. These are all the things you mist be thinking about. Whether you are planning on becoming a boring fatso spending his days like every other adult you have seen, or you plan on becoming a jolly funny friendly guy who's fourty years old and still plays videogames and whistles at teenagers passing by.