I am the same, I worry about getting old and not looking hot, going saggy and wrinkly, losing touch with the trends, not going partying and not having friends an being boring etc. I'm not that scared of death - ithappens to every human being in the world, but I love being young and beautiful. My main concern is how I look tbh, but I also want a life.. I look at my parents an think the same as you most of the time, especially my min, she has no life and is it ambitious. However I'm more like y dad, I aim to strive and achieve highly an I'm ambitious and adventurous. He is 47 and he regularly takes holidays to go paragliding off mountains, he skiis, he windsurfs, he ice skates, he is part of the local hockey club (grassy hockey), he took part in the tour de France last year, and he has a hot girlfriend and they go to the gym together and make all their friends there. They go on joint holidays sort their friends to Spain etc and they often have their friends over for a barbeque or a meal and chill in the hot tub. Do I don't think his life is too bad, which kinda gives me hope. My passion is also languages, culture and travel. II am studying French and Japanese and wish to spend lots of time in Canada, france, and japan. I also would love to travel lots in my life.
If I can fall in love and marry somebody with similar ambitions then before kids we can do that together , and then when we want kids we can do it as a team and do all the exciting family things :) and when I grow old and wrinkly and ugly it will be okay because he will be too and we will have grown old together :D so I don't think life is looking too bad :) be optimistic!
Is it normal that my biggest fear is becoming a true adult?
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I am the same, I worry about getting old and not looking hot, going saggy and wrinkly, losing touch with the trends, not going partying and not having friends an being boring etc. I'm not that scared of death - ithappens to every human being in the world, but I love being young and beautiful. My main concern is how I look tbh, but I also want a life.. I look at my parents an think the same as you most of the time, especially my min, she has no life and is it ambitious. However I'm more like y dad, I aim to strive and achieve highly an I'm ambitious and adventurous. He is 47 and he regularly takes holidays to go paragliding off mountains, he skiis, he windsurfs, he ice skates, he is part of the local hockey club (grassy hockey), he took part in the tour de France last year, and he has a hot girlfriend and they go to the gym together and make all their friends there. They go on joint holidays sort their friends to Spain etc and they often have their friends over for a barbeque or a meal and chill in the hot tub. Do I don't think his life is too bad, which kinda gives me hope. My passion is also languages, culture and travel. II am studying French and Japanese and wish to spend lots of time in Canada, france, and japan. I also would love to travel lots in my life.
If I can fall in love and marry somebody with similar ambitions then before kids we can do that together , and then when we want kids we can do it as a team and do all the exciting family things :) and when I grow old and wrinkly and ugly it will be okay because he will be too and we will have grown old together :D so I don't think life is looking too bad :) be optimistic!