Firstly, you need to be reminded of your age. You're 19! Most people party right up to 30 nowadays. The reason your parents are like that is because they've done all the partying, drinking etc that you will do, and they've come through the other side. You can be anything you want to be. Just have fun with your friends, meet girls, party, like any 19 year old and you'll meet somebody some day who you'll want to settle down with.
By the time you're 40, the attraction to young bars and clubs is at 0. There'll be more mature ones which you can go to. I know you're probably freaking out, reading this, but all I can say is have fun in the moment - now, and the rest will fall into place.
Is it normal that my biggest fear is becoming a true adult?
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Firstly, you need to be reminded of your age. You're 19! Most people party right up to 30 nowadays. The reason your parents are like that is because they've done all the partying, drinking etc that you will do, and they've come through the other side. You can be anything you want to be. Just have fun with your friends, meet girls, party, like any 19 year old and you'll meet somebody some day who you'll want to settle down with.
By the time you're 40, the attraction to young bars and clubs is at 0. There'll be more mature ones which you can go to. I know you're probably freaking out, reading this, but all I can say is have fun in the moment - now, and the rest will fall into place.