Is it normal that my bf only has sex with me when i'm asleep?

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My boyfriend and I have been togther for ten years. Sex was always pretty often and pretty good. I'm a very deep sleeper. He would get annoyed that I wouldn't want to get up to have sex, I'd tell him just go ahead, which he didn't want to do, but he would maybe once a month. Then about two years ago it started to be that that was ALL he wanted. He actually waits for me to go to sleep to do his thing. When I come on to him, he'll deny me, but then I'll wake up the next morning and he'll have done it. I've talked to him several times and nothing changes. Is this normal?!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Nope. But u not giving him what he wanted gave him a whole new fetish. It's not normal but it's ur fault he is that way now.

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  • hannahj03
    13 years ago | pl

    Watch out. That's how Ted bundy(serial killer) got started. He made love to his lady making her pretend to be asleep or dead. That progressed into killing women so he could violate their dead bodies.

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  • stevieo
    9 years ago | pl

    he realize he can only do what he really want when your sleep.you should put up a hidden camera and see what happens

    #lmao.

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  • GirlOfSilence
    9 years ago | pl

    Is you bf a necrophile?

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  • sugarbunny772
    11 years ago | pl

    Oh damn you should talk to him about this,10 years is a long time and not worth loosing over some silly habbit that could be changed.

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago | pl

      two years, not ten. been together ten years. started about two years ago. read and comprehend

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago | pl

    first of all he must have a really small dick not to wake you,and he just dosent want to cuddle after.

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago | pl

      or he does a good job getting her lubed up in her sleep. she did say she's a deep sleeper, so if she doesn't wake up on entry and he's doing the slow and steady . . .

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  • nicky99
    13 years ago | pl

    Yeah, maybe that's true and I hadn't thought of that. But I don't know how to undo it and I don't want to leave a good guy (otherwise) over one thing!

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago | pl

      he only does it when you're asleep the last two years? that is selfish of him not to let you enjoy your sex life

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  • theWARwhore
    13 years ago | pl

    wow ur guys an asshole

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  • Mel
    13 years ago | pl

    The whole situation is not normal.

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