You: Value the celebration of birthdays.
Him: Doesn't really care about birthdays.
Can you understand that not everyone cares about birthdays the way you do?
Can you understand that maybe your boyfriend doesn't understand how much your 30th birthday meant to you because it is not something that he would get jazzed about himself? That doesn't make him right, it just makes him as clueless as you are.
If celebrating your birthday is something that is very important to you and it's not for your boyfriend, then maybe you should thoroughly explain to him what exactly it is that you want from him. Or find some other guy that feels the same as you about birthdays.
Is it normal that my bf of 4 years always ignores my birthday
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You: Value the celebration of birthdays.
Him: Doesn't really care about birthdays.
Can you understand that not everyone cares about birthdays the way you do?
Can you understand that maybe your boyfriend doesn't understand how much your 30th birthday meant to you because it is not something that he would get jazzed about himself? That doesn't make him right, it just makes him as clueless as you are.
If celebrating your birthday is something that is very important to you and it's not for your boyfriend, then maybe you should thoroughly explain to him what exactly it is that you want from him. Or find some other guy that feels the same as you about birthdays.