From my opinion AND my bf opinion we both argue and agree that your bf is not appreciating you. A little bit is partly your fault for 'accepting' him not doing anything. You saying to him,'it's fine' even though you are NOT fine with it, but you said it so because you didnt want to sound like a little child. Due to that, he has gotten 'comfortable' as I like to call it. You saying what you did indicated to him that don't really care. Regardless of that, he still should show you some appreciation and love, and especially if you have been together for 4 years. I know it's not easy for anyone, but you have to decide whether this guy is the right one for you??? I honestly think you should have a sit down and talk to him about it and tell him how you really feel. If he turns around nd becomes an arse about it and does not care,well, that's your answer right there.
Like I said its not easy, in the end its your future, and if he does not change than you will always be unhappy and always questioning this.x
Is it normal that my bf of 4 years always ignores my birthday
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From my opinion AND my bf opinion we both argue and agree that your bf is not appreciating you. A little bit is partly your fault for 'accepting' him not doing anything. You saying to him,'it's fine' even though you are NOT fine with it, but you said it so because you didnt want to sound like a little child. Due to that, he has gotten 'comfortable' as I like to call it. You saying what you did indicated to him that don't really care. Regardless of that, he still should show you some appreciation and love, and especially if you have been together for 4 years. I know it's not easy for anyone, but you have to decide whether this guy is the right one for you??? I honestly think you should have a sit down and talk to him about it and tell him how you really feel. If he turns around nd becomes an arse about it and does not care,well, that's your answer right there.
Like I said its not easy, in the end its your future, and if he does not change than you will always be unhappy and always questioning this.x
The best of luck to you xx