Is it normal that my bf ignores me?

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I am in a really bad situation - my bf is going to pass the graduation exam in 14 days and he ignores me. Doesn't want to see me call me, send me messages.. I feel depressed... I know that he's under the pressure but it doesn't give a right to him to hate me. We've been together for 4 years so I thought that it wouldn't be a big deal for us. Is it normal to be ignored by him??

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Based on 71 votes (24 yes)
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  • Noneyabissnuess
    8 years ago

    Yes it is normal. He is stressed out

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sounds like he needs a punch in the balls. You positive he is actually studying?or is he using that time differently.....

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  • omaclean
    13 years ago

    yeah, normal, he doesnt like you, nothing odd about that...

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  • starburtsgrin
    13 years ago

    Boys can only think about one thing at a time! appreciate that he is comfortable with you and support him so when you get married he will take care of you with all the money he makes from his education!

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  • chocolate_123
    13 years ago

    Move on! He is selfish!

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  • furball
    13 years ago

    He's ignoring you because he hates you

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  • hengiska
    13 years ago

    Thank you all... And I think I'm giving him a lot of space, I think that he has got time for hobbies, friends.. But this is a little bit unfair...I would help him if he asked me to do it :-( I just want to be with him.. This situation has been on three weeks and there are stil fourteen days :-( I relly love him and I want to be with him, at least couple of hours a day :-(( I can't bear it :-(

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You have to give him space!!!! You are important but he already HAS you. You have to let him achieve his other goal now!!

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  • Kai'Layah
    13 years ago

    guys are weird, and they have a one-track mind. they can really only focus on one thing at a time. he may just be trying to do good on his exams and thinks that by seeing you that he will be side-tracked. wait till after the exams, and if he is still ignoring you, then move on...hard as it may be.

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  • Meli
    13 years ago

    I don't think that is normal at all! You have been together 4 years and he thinks it's ok to just not talk to you at all for 2 weeks. I would be pissed and move on! That's not fair to you!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    that's called being a douchebag. it is normal.

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  • misslj
    13 years ago

    I've bn in the same situation, my bf ignored me through the time he was studying. However he kept ignoring me afterwards aswell. This was a big sign that he didn't love me anymore. I think u should wait to see if it continues after his exams to make a decision tho. Good luck!

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