Is it normal that my bf does not really care much about sex?

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We have been together for nearly 2 and a half years now, and straight from the beginning he was not really... too much into sex and we have had lots of fights about it. He has changed a little since then. Does the fact that he lost his Virginity at 13 and he is now nearly 26 make a difference? but having said that, when i met him he was 23 so... does do the two link? Please, i would really like a guys perspective on this.

I do dress up and i am NOT one of those gf who just lays down in bed and lets the guy do everything, most of the time its me on top. Im not one of those person who likes to go straight into sex immediatly, i like to take my time but he does not.... and its like, he is 'lazy' to make a move and just waits for me to start if off. Yes i do spice things up, and everything. I just dont understand.

Im not a super model but i do think i am above average looking (and im not being big headed at all, but thought i would point that out if maybe you guys would think that the looks might have abeen a problem)

Any opinions please.. do tell xx

P.s sorry for the long story :S

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    i hope so, but would you still think the same after i tell you that 7 months into our relationship i found out (3 moths later) that he was talking to other women onlne having cyber sex with them and doing things you shouldnt have done. but it only carried on for a month or too. He has not done it since. And i am a very very supecious person and i found out EVRERYTHING in the end, but he apologies and we had a big fihght about it and things have been good after, but sometimes it does make me think as to whether he does find me attractive or not... sometimes i think he is with me because of the things i do for him. Honestly he gets spoiled, everything he wants he gets, he received so much love from me (i am a loving person and cant help the way i am).

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  • [email protected]
    9 years ago

    leave him and find someone like me who dreams about sex day and night.

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