It sounds like there's probably more to the story than your post lets on, but regardless of any back story their bad behavior and seemingly wanting to rub your nose in their new found friendship is a mark of insecurity as if maybe their trying to prove something.
I would like to humbly suggest that one of the best things you can do for yourself is to not engage with these two people. It looks to me that by sending the pictures they're trying to get a rise out of you. Don't give them what they want instead try to find out what you want separate of this entire issue and go for that! Try to stay busy and throw yourself into your school or work. Seek out new extra curricular activities and or hobbies in which you hold an interest where you can meet other like-minded people and possibly make new friends.
Please know that you're not alone in experiencing the breakup of a friendship, rejection, abandonment and or betrayal. I'm a 44 year old woman and about a year and a half ago I went through a very painful situation which essentially resulted in a breakup of friendship with three other female friends. That particular clique of which I was once a part was fraught with codependency and I've tried as much as possible to see it as a learning experience. I wish you all the best!
Is it normal that my best friend replaced me
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It sounds like there's probably more to the story than your post lets on, but regardless of any back story their bad behavior and seemingly wanting to rub your nose in their new found friendship is a mark of insecurity as if maybe their trying to prove something.
I would like to humbly suggest that one of the best things you can do for yourself is to not engage with these two people. It looks to me that by sending the pictures they're trying to get a rise out of you. Don't give them what they want instead try to find out what you want separate of this entire issue and go for that! Try to stay busy and throw yourself into your school or work. Seek out new extra curricular activities and or hobbies in which you hold an interest where you can meet other like-minded people and possibly make new friends.
Please know that you're not alone in experiencing the breakup of a friendship, rejection, abandonment and or betrayal. I'm a 44 year old woman and about a year and a half ago I went through a very painful situation which essentially resulted in a breakup of friendship with three other female friends. That particular clique of which I was once a part was fraught with codependency and I've tried as much as possible to see it as a learning experience. I wish you all the best!
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u go grl
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*Paws Up*
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