I'm really sorry about your friend. :( I can understand why you're in shock, and its completely normal for you to still be thinking of her. Recovering from a loss takes time. Sometimes it takes others shorter, sometimes longer. I honestly think that you should speak with your school counselor about this. Even if you're not completely traumatized, its still good to speak with someone.
I'm sure you'll never foreget her, and the great memories you both had together. You might not remember her scent, and a clear vision of her face, but it'll probably slowly come back to you if not today, then someday later. These kind of things we never forget. Shes probably watching over you. But she probably would also want you to be happy. And of course its hard to accept that she died so young, and of something so horrible, but theres a reason for everything, and it was her time to go, unfortunately. But shes probably at peace right now. Now, all the people shes left behind, need to find peace.
I think you're in shock not only because she was your friend, and that she was so young, and it might've even been sudden. But I think part of the reason for your shock is that you're trying very hard to understand why. The only advise I could give you for that is, don't. Don't wonder why. Don't continuously ask yourself why, or try to find reasons. Death is so unexplainable, and thats probably one of the reasons why people have such a difficult time getting over the pain of losing someone. :( Speak with your school counselor, it probably will help you a lot. I'm sorry.
Is it normal that my best friend died at 15?
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I'm really sorry about your friend. :( I can understand why you're in shock, and its completely normal for you to still be thinking of her. Recovering from a loss takes time. Sometimes it takes others shorter, sometimes longer. I honestly think that you should speak with your school counselor about this. Even if you're not completely traumatized, its still good to speak with someone.
I'm sure you'll never foreget her, and the great memories you both had together. You might not remember her scent, and a clear vision of her face, but it'll probably slowly come back to you if not today, then someday later. These kind of things we never forget. Shes probably watching over you. But she probably would also want you to be happy. And of course its hard to accept that she died so young, and of something so horrible, but theres a reason for everything, and it was her time to go, unfortunately. But shes probably at peace right now. Now, all the people shes left behind, need to find peace.
I think you're in shock not only because she was your friend, and that she was so young, and it might've even been sudden. But I think part of the reason for your shock is that you're trying very hard to understand why. The only advise I could give you for that is, don't. Don't wonder why. Don't continuously ask yourself why, or try to find reasons. Death is so unexplainable, and thats probably one of the reasons why people have such a difficult time getting over the pain of losing someone. :( Speak with your school counselor, it probably will help you a lot. I'm sorry.