I don't think 12 years old is all THAT early for a girl who has begun puberty to experience orgasm. (To quote an article I read in my human sexuality class, "The average age at first masturbation was 13.1 and the median was 12.6" in reference to females.)
I appreciate the advice on seeing a psychologist to discuss this with them, I think it could be very helpful. Honestly I'm a bit offended that it is suggested I might do this to someone else one day. I have a relatively good grasp of what is socially acceptable (and legal). I'm simply trying to come to terms with what I went through.
Yes well don't be offended by people (hopefully) helping you or even just providing an ear.
Why I mentioned about your understanding of right and wrong is because you yourself stated: "I don't think I would consider what she did "abuse" either"
Whereas 'Legally' she DID (according to your testimony)
STILL, sometimes people do grow up with 'unknown' psychological issues (to them) AND once these issues are found (if any) then you may be able to piece together other possible abnormalities in your teenage life, who knows? Have people ever questioned your actions to that level before?
Well I do appreciate the advice and time... just, I really wouldn't do anything like that.
The reason I said I don't consider it "abuse" is that... I dunno. I don't feel abused. I know LEGALLY it is, but I don't have any negative feelings about it, just sort of a curiosity about the whole thing.
I do have a strange past regarding sexual encounters but I don't think I have anything diagnosable (lest it be for adderall, they give that to any old person these days).
Should I be more upset about it? Sometimes I feel like I should be angry, or feel abused. I just don't. Is that weird? I even fantasize about it sometimes when masturbating. GAH! I don't know!
IIN that my babysitter was my first sexual encounter? (both female)
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I don't think 12 years old is all THAT early for a girl who has begun puberty to experience orgasm. (To quote an article I read in my human sexuality class, "The average age at first masturbation was 13.1 and the median was 12.6" in reference to females.)
I appreciate the advice on seeing a psychologist to discuss this with them, I think it could be very helpful. Honestly I'm a bit offended that it is suggested I might do this to someone else one day. I have a relatively good grasp of what is socially acceptable (and legal). I'm simply trying to come to terms with what I went through.
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Yes well don't be offended by people (hopefully) helping you or even just providing an ear.
Why I mentioned about your understanding of right and wrong is because you yourself stated: "I don't think I would consider what she did "abuse" either"
Whereas 'Legally' she DID (according to your testimony)
STILL, sometimes people do grow up with 'unknown' psychological issues (to them) AND once these issues are found (if any) then you may be able to piece together other possible abnormalities in your teenage life, who knows? Have people ever questioned your actions to that level before?
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Well I do appreciate the advice and time... just, I really wouldn't do anything like that.
The reason I said I don't consider it "abuse" is that... I dunno. I don't feel abused. I know LEGALLY it is, but I don't have any negative feelings about it, just sort of a curiosity about the whole thing.
I do have a strange past regarding sexual encounters but I don't think I have anything diagnosable (lest it be for adderall, they give that to any old person these days).
Should I be more upset about it? Sometimes I feel like I should be angry, or feel abused. I just don't. Is that weird? I even fantasize about it sometimes when masturbating. GAH! I don't know!
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Its gray.
And a little mind boggling.
Hmm, maybe that's your psychological condition? Lol
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I'm deeply afflicted with BMS (Boggled-Mind Syndrome). Yeah, most likely.