She's playing you like a fool. Here's the deal; at 19 y/o, I would have been exactly the same as you. You don't realise how much you have going for you and that *you have a duty to yourself not to put up with this shit*.
I know you think you like her a lot. But this bitch kicked you out to hook up with another guy. It doesn't matter if you were technically exclusive/not exclusive - in fundamental human nature terms, that shit is NOT OK. And you putting up with it, just gives her license to continue. So you're telling her that it's ok, and it is not. Even though she may have convinced you that it is, or that it's your fault, or whatever.
No, the only thing to do is move on to another girl/girls. This will help get your mind off her, and may increase her interest in you (if you want to hook up with her again). At the very least, create some distance, disinterest and don't allow yourself to be treated like that. I know it's not all bad, but for eg: if she texts you about some artist she could hook up with, *ignore her*.
If she texts saying she wants to be in a relationship, leave it for two days and then say you're not really interested in that.
Don't be suckered into this shit, that's all. Be conscious of what's going on, overcome your emotions. Because that's what she's playing on. IMO.
I know it's hard and you won't want to accept it, but this girl is toying with you because she knows she can. Once you take control, she can't do that any more. it doesn't rule out any future relationships with her, it just rules out you being taken for granted and played with.
Is it normal that my "almost gf" cheats on me?
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She's playing you like a fool. Here's the deal; at 19 y/o, I would have been exactly the same as you. You don't realise how much you have going for you and that *you have a duty to yourself not to put up with this shit*.
I know you think you like her a lot. But this bitch kicked you out to hook up with another guy. It doesn't matter if you were technically exclusive/not exclusive - in fundamental human nature terms, that shit is NOT OK. And you putting up with it, just gives her license to continue. So you're telling her that it's ok, and it is not. Even though she may have convinced you that it is, or that it's your fault, or whatever.
No, the only thing to do is move on to another girl/girls. This will help get your mind off her, and may increase her interest in you (if you want to hook up with her again). At the very least, create some distance, disinterest and don't allow yourself to be treated like that. I know it's not all bad, but for eg: if she texts you about some artist she could hook up with, *ignore her*.
If she texts saying she wants to be in a relationship, leave it for two days and then say you're not really interested in that.
Don't be suckered into this shit, that's all. Be conscious of what's going on, overcome your emotions. Because that's what she's playing on. IMO.
I know it's hard and you won't want to accept it, but this girl is toying with you because she knows she can. Once you take control, she can't do that any more. it doesn't rule out any future relationships with her, it just rules out you being taken for granted and played with.