Is it normal that my 14 year old sister still runs around naked?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago | pl

    Still, you need to be cautious. Like both me and DADNSCAL said, something might happen and you could get the blame for it.

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    • BHolt
      10 years ago | pl

      I agree. Tell your parents that she does it, just in case something happens, but if it doesn't make you uncomfortable, tell them that too.

      If they are ok with her doing it around you, as DADNSCAL said, join her! Of course ASK HER FIRST if it's ok. Even if the idea of being naked yourself scares you or makes you uncomfortable, you will be surprised how fast you get used to it, and how awesomely liberating it is!

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      • einar
        10 years ago | pl

        I'll see if I dare... It feels kinda weird to be naked around her...

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        • robbieforgotpw
          10 years ago | pl

          Well of course, you're brother and sister. It's not normal to hang out naked together. It's potentially incestuous. I would tell her be naked if you want but stay away from me,your bro.

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          • einar
            10 years ago | pl

            That's what she does. She doesn't really go near me, but she doesn't mind if happen to see her nude.

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            • IBMelissaG
              10 years ago | pl

              Just start being nude around her. If she asks why you are doing that - just say "hey, you do it, so why can't I". The more she sees you nude, the better chance you have of becoming closer as brother-sister.

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        • Avant-Garde
          10 years ago | pl

          Wait.... Are you having second thoughts on her being nude?!

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          • einar
            10 years ago | pl

            What do you mean?

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            • Avant-Garde
              10 years ago | pl

              The vibe I got from your comments made me feel that you are second thoughts on getting her to stop and/ or telling your parents.

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              • einar
                10 years ago | pl

                No, I'm fully fine with her doing this since she's comfortable with it, and the thing I said to her once (that's mentioned in the first post) was just to mess with her a little. I won't stop her.

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        • BHolt
          10 years ago | pl

          It will at first, we have been conditioned to think like that. She is exploring testing the limits of her conditioning to see how it feels. This may feel a bit 'odd', but she may also be curious about sex & gender and may be trying to get you to be naked with her so she can see what the naked male body looks like. Let me be clear: there is NOTHING wrong with doing this.

          Centuries of sexual repression says this is wrong, but in today's society, kids need to learn about sex & gender properly in a safe and comfortable environment. Don't misunderstand, I am not saying have sex with her or to give her "the sex talk", just play along. Her behaviour is a normal part of childhood sexual development and should NOT be discouraged. Doing so can have long-term effects on her sexual attitude. Ideally her attitude should be sex-positive (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex-positive_movement).

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          • einarforgotpw
            10 years ago | pl

            It still feels really weird to ask her if I can be naked with her. Can you tell me how I should say it to her?

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