Is it normal that mom makes me unhook her bra?
Hi, I'm a 17 y/o male. I live with my dysfunctional family. A few months ago mom got a new set of bra. Since then, I have to unhook them when she goes bathing or changing them before sleep. She gets by when I'm not around, but says it's pretty hard to take them off by herself. And as for why she doesn't go to dad, let's just say they hardly even talk. :-) But I find it pretty gross and uncomfortable. I guess I'm being the sick one here, feeling sexualized or such. I have BPD, so yeah, splitting and irrational ideas are something I live with. Thanks for reading! :-)