Is it normal that men are so SELFISH!?

You are fucking dumb. Lol it's not selfish to want to wait to have a baby untill you're ready and able to provide for it. If any one is selfish here it's you. You went and had a baby despite how he felt about it when relationships are suppous to be a 50 50 thing. You make decisions together. He was still in collage. That's absoutely normal. I find it fucked yo that you say you think Ya selfish that he wants a easy life? He's suppous to want a hard one? Not only is it easier for him if u waited to have that baby but it would of been easier for the child because now the babys gonna grow up probably not having everything it deserves because you didn't wait till his daddy finished college and now he's gonna have to grow up with immature parents who weren't ready for the responsibility of a child. Don't even say you're mature because mature people don't sneakly get pregnant that's fucked up. You sound bat shit crazy