Is it normal that me and my high school sweetheart are still in love?

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Well, me and my sweetheart met at the young age of 15. Now, at 21, we're engaged and the weird part is he was my first for everything. Through knowing each other, we were each others first date, kiss, and first lovers. Is it odd that we never had anyone else and that it had always been us? I'm content but my family and friends say they never thought we would wound up engaged and thought it the average HS relationship.

We've waited through long distances, stuck by each others sides even when the other gave us reason to move on, and in every essence were like a married couple by 19. Is it normal?

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  • JadeyGirl9
    10 years ago | pl

    Your in love. Face it. There's nothing wrong with that! Stay with him forever!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    I think it's a reflection on our society if someone questions if this is normal.

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    • flowergirl87
      10 years ago | pl

      I agree. There's a lot of pressure to 'play the field' before settling down. But it should be about what works for the individual. Of course it's 'normal' for some people to meet a long term partner when they're young. Infact, it used to be THE norm.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      10 years ago | pl

      I think so too.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    10 years ago | pl

    Thats cute. Hold onto that. I know very few people that ended up with their high school sweetheart.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago | pl

    That sweet, and always makes me smile when I hear these stories! Good luck, it works well like this when both tries their hardest to give all of themselves to the other!

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  • Dread-pool
    7 years ago | pl

    i stole some girls id along time ago.

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  • peterr2
    8 years ago | pl

    Do you suck anyone else off outside of your relationship?

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  • ineedtape
    9 years ago | pl

    sorry thats rude of me
    just going through a shitty divorce

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  • ineedtape
    9 years ago | pl

    ITS A TRAP! RUN, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, RUNNNN

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  • Thatguy777
    10 years ago | pl

    I wish I had that...

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  • flowergirl87
    10 years ago | pl

    If you're truly happy together, then I think it's lovely. Sod what others think. People probably admire your ability to committ. As long as your relationship is true and honest and not based on neediness or familiarity, then great.

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  • lastcaress
    10 years ago | pl

    I hate to piss on your cornflakes but it isn't going to work.

    Puppy love is amazing but it never lasts.

    You're both FAR to young.

    I was once as naive as you, then I broke her heart and she broke mine.

    Just enjoy it for what it is now, in the moment but don't be silly and dream of marriage etc, it will end in tears.

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  • lastcaress
    10 years ago | pl

    Yea very sweet.

    Until the cold hard reality hits you both in a few years that you both want to fuck other people.

    It will happen, trust me.

    Mwhahaharrr

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      That's what I'm hoping doesn't happen. I'm kind of scared to get to tie the knot because I know that my parents split off and found other people and they meant WAY down the road and we met as adolescents. I already cheated before though once. But I fessed up to it and we made up in a month's time.

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      • flowergirl87
        10 years ago | pl

        If the relationship is worth enough to you then neither of you will let some meaningless sex with someone else get in the way. Some people come to an arrangment where they stay together but just sleep wth others too (but they DO NOT engage in a full relationship with others - that's different.) If you ever do this, though, just don't get an STI... that wouldn't be cool. I'd just avoid that kind of 'arrangement' altogether, though, it's probably not worth it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago | pl

    that's fine.

    you don't have to date a million people just to find the one you're meant to be with. sometimes you get lucky and find that person early

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    Aww that is sweet. Never forget your love for each other. Some people lose sight of that and just go through the motions, forget to cherish every moment they have with one another, and forget how special that person means to them.

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