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So here's the thing; Me and my friend (she's also a girl)went to a house party not long ago. Everything was great and i guess that we had too much to drink and made out, i suppose we both liked it and we started getting closer. Luckily nothing else happened after that. It's been really awkward ever since that night, and i've been questioning myself ever since? I love guys and what they have, but i enjoyed kissing a girl too...is this normal? x
I know exactly how you feel but I never went through this extreme awkwardness we just laughed about it the very next day I know I'm straight and the kiss was crazy but I don't regret it, it gives us something to remember that crazyass night. I get the getting closer part too she's also one of my closest friends ..just bring it up like "woah we were fucked up haha" it's better than ignoring the elephant in the room (:
If you feel it has questioned your own sexuality, then first off, stop feeling bad about it. Things happen in life!
I think what you describe has happened to almost everyone at some point in their life. When you drink a bit too much your emotions for your friends are often exaggerated, and you probably were caught in the moment with her, and it just felt like the natural thing to do.
I guarantee she is feeling exactly how you feel, and the best thing is if you two meet up and just say – “that was a crazy night, talk about messing with our heads!” and make a joke about it being something to remember when you are old in an old people’s home or something.
Just take the heat off of her and the intensity out of it. You might be able to gauge her reaction from how you choose to deal with it when you first bring the topic up. Just be careful of her feelings as well as your own, and make sure you protect your friendship first and foremost.
Mainly, quit worrying, okay?