Sex is primitive? Well, yes, it absolutely is. Every single one of your antecedents necessarily did it right back through Homo Erectus some one and a half million years ago. Otherwise you wouldn't be here. Other primitive things include breathing, talking, dreaming, and yes, even thinking. Are you going to give these up too?
I'm not being critical. What I'm trying to highlight is that the reasons you give for abstinence are not the real reasons. Your body's own physiological response is preparing you for sex. What I'm guessing is that either you or your boyfriend (or both of you) have some fear of sex or intimacy. You'd do much better to face up to this than to live in denial with this notion that sex is primitive.
Is it normal that just kissing my boyfriend makes me wet?
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Sex is primitive? Well, yes, it absolutely is. Every single one of your antecedents necessarily did it right back through Homo Erectus some one and a half million years ago. Otherwise you wouldn't be here. Other primitive things include breathing, talking, dreaming, and yes, even thinking. Are you going to give these up too?
I'm not being critical. What I'm trying to highlight is that the reasons you give for abstinence are not the real reasons. Your body's own physiological response is preparing you for sex. What I'm guessing is that either you or your boyfriend (or both of you) have some fear of sex or intimacy. You'd do much better to face up to this than to live in denial with this notion that sex is primitive.