Is it normal that ive never been able to climax

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Is it normal that I've never been able to climax?
to me sex just feels weird I think being raped as a child is partially to blame sex just isn't a big deal for me.
I recently had sex for the first in about 2yrs and it really hurt like the first time all over again is that normal as well?

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    The climax is often the hardest part of the writing process.

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  • felixbelacan
    11 years ago

    or perhaps that is not your problem. Check his size...

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  • msz_unbelivable
    11 years ago

    I think that's exactly what it is I've been debating for awhile about whether or not I should seek out professional help I'm just really nervous & afraid
    I just don't want my family to find out I've kept it myself for so long

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    If it's hurting you're doing something wrong, and the childhood trauma may be causing you to mentally stop yourself from enjoying it (subconsciously of course).

    I'd recommend seeing a psychologist and making sure that you're dealing with any issues you may have because of your trauma.

    Can you climax through masturbation?

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  • msz_unbelivable
    11 years ago

    Lol maybe because it really hurt

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  • Moneybagschest
    11 years ago

    Perhaps he did it wrong.

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  • msz_unbelivable
    11 years ago

    Lol

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