I'm sorry about your fiance and I totally hear you on weddings. Society and the media hypes them up mainly because weddings are big business money makers. The average wedding is about $20k these days. Frankly, a big fancy wedding is a waste of money especially if you can't really afford it. You can take all that money and save for a house or pay off some personal debts so you can enter the marriage unburdened. A big fancy wedding not to mention, is no indicator of a good marriage in the future. Also, for some people raised to believe that getting married is the be all and end all, the wedding day is the highlight of their lives...which is pretty effing sad if you ask me, considering there is so much to do and see in this world that one day and one party is the climax of it all.....
Is it normal that it the "wedding" obsession thing pisses me off?
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I'm sorry about your fiance and I totally hear you on weddings. Society and the media hypes them up mainly because weddings are big business money makers. The average wedding is about $20k these days. Frankly, a big fancy wedding is a waste of money especially if you can't really afford it. You can take all that money and save for a house or pay off some personal debts so you can enter the marriage unburdened. A big fancy wedding not to mention, is no indicator of a good marriage in the future. Also, for some people raised to believe that getting married is the be all and end all, the wedding day is the highlight of their lives...which is pretty effing sad if you ask me, considering there is so much to do and see in this world that one day and one party is the climax of it all.....