Well, saying this might make you like me a little bit less...
Even if you could have children, it would not be fair to have a child that would have to endure their father being sick, needing so much care when your family and friends should be focused on caring for the child, being somewhat unavailable because their father does not have the energy, etc. and it would not be fair to have a child that would have to endure the death of their father.
Your husband may be depressed because he can't care more for and be for available to the child, too.
If you were to adopt, I think the child may be more resilient towards strife, and may have already endured it, and may be really appreciative to have any kind of parents.
Even then, you and him probably have great things to offer your own child. I'm just trying to bring up some important points.
I think at least some of these people have depth, but you do not see it. How well do you know them? I suppose if they had a charity fundraiser at their wedding they would be closer to your ideals?
Some of them probably do really suck and are shallow most of the time.
But yes, it's best not to judge.
I had heard of some cancer "cures" on curezone.com I sent them to another user on here, but he just ignored me. Maybe they would be of some use to you? They are alternative medicine.
Is it normal that it the "wedding" obsession thing pisses me off?
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Well, saying this might make you like me a little bit less...
Even if you could have children, it would not be fair to have a child that would have to endure their father being sick, needing so much care when your family and friends should be focused on caring for the child, being somewhat unavailable because their father does not have the energy, etc. and it would not be fair to have a child that would have to endure the death of their father.
Your husband may be depressed because he can't care more for and be for available to the child, too.
If you were to adopt, I think the child may be more resilient towards strife, and may have already endured it, and may be really appreciative to have any kind of parents.
Even then, you and him probably have great things to offer your own child. I'm just trying to bring up some important points.
I think at least some of these people have depth, but you do not see it. How well do you know them? I suppose if they had a charity fundraiser at their wedding they would be closer to your ideals?
Some of them probably do really suck and are shallow most of the time.
But yes, it's best not to judge.
I had heard of some cancer "cures" on curezone.com I sent them to another user on here, but he just ignored me. Maybe they would be of some use to you? They are alternative medicine.