Dear girl, why should all the weight of a relationship should be on the male part, why should always be the man that should do something special for the aanniversary if you wanted something special make it yourself.
Most women have no idea how to be romantic, all the romantic obligation is left for the man seriously why, as a woman you know what you want so do it yourself, man can't read women minds your heads are like frikin huricans.
It took me a lot of trial and time to have a gf that actually shares a relationship and not awaits everything from me, and viceversa. Last valentine I didn't want to do anything, I was just depressed and bored, the relationship was on the cold side, and guess who reheated it this year my dear gf, yeah I was so frikin surprised by her initiative that actually got me out of my bad mood... that was a nice feeling that actually I am appreciated by my gf and doesn't take everything for granted.
The question for you is: when was the last time you did something for the relationship beside expecting everything from him ?
Also guys like getting text messages but not like every 5 minutes, that is called nagging and it also puts pressure cuz you need to answer it and answer satisfactory for you...
The thing is now to get him excited to be with you again, be spontanious, do things you didn't did before, if you know the term be tsundere :)) or the equivalent bitter sweet boys tend to love that :))
First of all, I do PLENTY of stuff for him. On Vday he mentioned making a cake but idk what happened. I, on the other hand, made him a plate of color-coordinated cupcakes w/ pop rock sprinkles, I got him a cute card, and brought his mom flowers. I bend over backwards for him if he needs me. I'll cancel plans with friends to go see him, give him massages, bring him McDonald's late at night, I even paid for condoms & bought him Xbox Live points on a couple ocassions lol. On our anniversary I initiated that we go do something, and the night before that I secretly delivered a 4 page love letter so he could get it in his mailbox on midnight. He did nothing.
I do a lot of sweet stuff & I put him first before anything. I try so hard to be the perfect girlfriend so I think I deserve some attention. I really don't think that's asking too much. :/
Is it normal that it seems like he changed?
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Dear girl, why should all the weight of a relationship should be on the male part, why should always be the man that should do something special for the aanniversary if you wanted something special make it yourself.
Most women have no idea how to be romantic, all the romantic obligation is left for the man seriously why, as a woman you know what you want so do it yourself, man can't read women minds your heads are like frikin huricans.
It took me a lot of trial and time to have a gf that actually shares a relationship and not awaits everything from me, and viceversa. Last valentine I didn't want to do anything, I was just depressed and bored, the relationship was on the cold side, and guess who reheated it this year my dear gf, yeah I was so frikin surprised by her initiative that actually got me out of my bad mood... that was a nice feeling that actually I am appreciated by my gf and doesn't take everything for granted.
The question for you is: when was the last time you did something for the relationship beside expecting everything from him ?
Also guys like getting text messages but not like every 5 minutes, that is called nagging and it also puts pressure cuz you need to answer it and answer satisfactory for you...
The thing is now to get him excited to be with you again, be spontanious, do things you didn't did before, if you know the term be tsundere :)) or the equivalent bitter sweet boys tend to love that :))
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First of all, I do PLENTY of stuff for him. On Vday he mentioned making a cake but idk what happened. I, on the other hand, made him a plate of color-coordinated cupcakes w/ pop rock sprinkles, I got him a cute card, and brought his mom flowers. I bend over backwards for him if he needs me. I'll cancel plans with friends to go see him, give him massages, bring him McDonald's late at night, I even paid for condoms & bought him Xbox Live points on a couple ocassions lol. On our anniversary I initiated that we go do something, and the night before that I secretly delivered a 4 page love letter so he could get it in his mailbox on midnight. He did nothing.
I do a lot of sweet stuff & I put him first before anything. I try so hard to be the perfect girlfriend so I think I deserve some attention. I really don't think that's asking too much. :/