Of course I have spoken to him about it. We have many similar life goals, including the desire to have children. It is just that whenever we do talk about the marriage issue, he never confirms not denies a wish to be married.
He asked me a while back what kind of rings I liked and what my finger size was, and then just sort of dropped the subject. I just wish he would tell me one way or the other, sometimes he acts as though he would never get married and other times he talks about "our" future and "our" children and "our" home.
But then it's like he catches himself and grows cold again.
I wish I knew what his problem was. Every time I bring up the subject he has an excuse not to talk about it, and I think it is important.
Is it normal that it bothers me when other people get engaged/married?
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Of course I have spoken to him about it. We have many similar life goals, including the desire to have children. It is just that whenever we do talk about the marriage issue, he never confirms not denies a wish to be married.
He asked me a while back what kind of rings I liked and what my finger size was, and then just sort of dropped the subject. I just wish he would tell me one way or the other, sometimes he acts as though he would never get married and other times he talks about "our" future and "our" children and "our" home.
But then it's like he catches himself and grows cold again.
I wish I knew what his problem was. Every time I bring up the subject he has an excuse not to talk about it, and I think it is important.