Chemistry or infatuation is selfish, it's all about me. I'm turned on, I feel attracted to you, I'm excited. I, I, I.
Love on the other hand is something you do, not a feeling. It's all about your partner.
Most all successful/rewarding relationships start out as infatuation (about me) and develop over time into love (about you).
There should be a progression from one to the other. It takes time to get to know each other, to accept each other, and eventually to love each other (put the other first). It isn't always easy, and it takes effort.
Most relationships that fail do not make this progression. One or both remain in the "me mode".
Is it normal that in sex chemistry is temporary, love is forever?
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Yes, its perfectly normal.
Chemistry or infatuation is selfish, it's all about me. I'm turned on, I feel attracted to you, I'm excited. I, I, I.
Love on the other hand is something you do, not a feeling. It's all about your partner.
Most all successful/rewarding relationships start out as infatuation (about me) and develop over time into love (about you).
There should be a progression from one to the other. It takes time to get to know each other, to accept each other, and eventually to love each other (put the other first). It isn't always easy, and it takes effort.
Most relationships that fail do not make this progression. One or both remain in the "me mode".