I'm still madly in love with my Ex even though she treat me like shit, cheated on me, lied and then didn't even have the guts for the last goodbye in person after spending 5 years of my life doing everything for her. So I do know how you feel. I was depressed before we broke up, and I felt even worse after. A bunch of bad things happened to me at once and it SUCKED!
It is normal, and I too have felt this way as have MANY others. Some people 'feel' more than others, or deeper or... hell I'm not quite sure exactly what it is. People can over think things, I know I do. But things do get better, slowly but surely. Got to let them build, one step at a time in a positive direction.
A good friend told me some good advice that at the time I refused to accept and it angered me. She told me to quit all hope of ever getting back with my ex. To forget about her and move on. I almost kicked and screamed, but I really had no choice. It has begun working, afterall it has almost been a year.
Why he'd say that about you is beyond me because I find that a cute thing. Maybe he was just trying to look strong in front of his friends?
I'm sure your a very nice girl and you shouldn't let this bring you down. Don't change for no one. Live life how YOU like, and most importantly - find yourself! 'cause as much as I don't know you, or what you are about. I am confident in believing this is NOT who you are. Or you wouldn't be posting here like this.
Is it normal that im still madly in love with my ex?
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Hey,
I'm still madly in love with my Ex even though she treat me like shit, cheated on me, lied and then didn't even have the guts for the last goodbye in person after spending 5 years of my life doing everything for her. So I do know how you feel. I was depressed before we broke up, and I felt even worse after. A bunch of bad things happened to me at once and it SUCKED!
It is normal, and I too have felt this way as have MANY others. Some people 'feel' more than others, or deeper or... hell I'm not quite sure exactly what it is. People can over think things, I know I do. But things do get better, slowly but surely. Got to let them build, one step at a time in a positive direction.
A good friend told me some good advice that at the time I refused to accept and it angered me. She told me to quit all hope of ever getting back with my ex. To forget about her and move on. I almost kicked and screamed, but I really had no choice. It has begun working, afterall it has almost been a year.
Why he'd say that about you is beyond me because I find that a cute thing. Maybe he was just trying to look strong in front of his friends?
I'm sure your a very nice girl and you shouldn't let this bring you down. Don't change for no one. Live life how YOU like, and most importantly - find yourself! 'cause as much as I don't know you, or what you are about. I am confident in believing this is NOT who you are. Or you wouldn't be posting here like this.
Take care. :).
- Darkrain