Is it normal that im starting to fall in love with him ?

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im 18 yo girl,i only dated one guy for 3 years and then i met this guy and he is 30 and we started being friends with benefits , but im falling in love with him and wants more from this relationship? is it okay or im just loosing my mind ?

also if u guys know how can i tell him that i want more from this relationship can u guys tell me?

P.S: i look so young for my age and he looks like he is 24 will ppl stop and stare at us in the street ?

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Based on 52 votes (32 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    hes a sick fuck,have the homeboys do a number on him

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    30 year old men don't have 18 year old girls for friends, so i am assuming you are having a sexual affair with an older man, rather than a friends with benefits relationship. that being said, i highly doubt that this man thinks of you in any other way than free casual sex. but, i could be wrong and maybe he's mr. wonderful.

    if you want to be with a mature man, then do the mature thing and tell him how you feel. it will work out one way or the other from there. i doubt you can manipulate a man 12 years your senior into loving you unless he is a complete idiot.

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    • originally18
      14 years ago

      well first of all yes dats wut i meant from FWB and i dont wanna manipulate him AND he is not an idiot .......i just really like him and i think im falling for him IIN ?????

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  • fraufrau
    13 years ago

    If people are stopping and staring at you guys, he prolly does look like he's 30.

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  • CruelSoulz
    14 years ago

    if i were you i would stay with the guy that i had spend my time for three years...

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  • AbnormalGuy
    14 years ago

    lol i know a girl who's 18 and is with a 28 year old guy and I find it pretty weird but it's considered completely normal by everyone and nobody even talks about it

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  • mieoux
    14 years ago

    What more do you want from the relationship as in if you could get this "more" that you want, what would be different about the new relationship from the relationship you have now? Answer this question for yourself you don't have to tell me. Then tell him in person that you are falling in love and you would like more from the relationship and tell him what you mean by more - assuming you answered the question above.
    Meanwhile be prepared for him to bail, this happens quite often when you have "the talk", but at least you will know.

    By the way friends-with-benefits situations don't usually turn into "regular" relationships since if you both wanted more, it would never have been a friends-with-benefits situation to begin with.

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    • originally18
      14 years ago

      thnx dat actually helped alot !!! <3
      i told him and he said he really loves me back but he was afraid of refusal since he is 12 year older so thnx ALOT

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