If this lad doesn't get totally sick of your obsessive behaviour he is going to realise that he can treat you any way he likes, and you're such a doormat you will forgive him. You need to be in contact with your friends, or have a hobby that takes you away from him.
This is really not healthy, and he will only value you when you value yourself.
I hate to say this - but I can't see this lasting if you continue to cty and obsess. I certainly wouldn't allow my son to go out with you!!!
thank you for replying and i think ur right i do need to grow up i just dont know how to do it, what should i do to be better at this?? is there anyway i can get better i really really need to get better becuase he always tells me if i dont change my jealously we wont be able to move foward and i really want him to marry me i really love him :(
Do you seriously have nothing at all that you can get involved in that you lose all sense of time?
Reading, surfing the internet for shoes, charity work, commenting here.... Anything at all, that allows time to pass when you don't think or text him.
What about hypnosis? Yoga? Writing very long detailed letters to him that you DON'T send, but tear up after spending hours writing them!! For goodness sake - anything!!
There's nothing worse than being suffocated by someone!! My friends all laugh coz my husband (22 years) wouldn't text or call me unless I disappeared for at least 3 days!! Nor would I text or call him - UNLESS I have something to say!!! eg. bring home sugar. Otherwise we'd have nothing to say for 4-6 hours when we are together each evening! GET IT?!
You're going to burn out this relationship and bore the guy into dumping you :o(
Resist calling / texting / fighting. Get another project instead of him eg. school work, homework, etc.
I really feel sorry for you that you are depending on this guy to occupy your time and amuse you. It is a massive burden to be responsible for someone else's happiness :o(
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You really need to grow up!
If this lad doesn't get totally sick of your obsessive behaviour he is going to realise that he can treat you any way he likes, and you're such a doormat you will forgive him. You need to be in contact with your friends, or have a hobby that takes you away from him.
This is really not healthy, and he will only value you when you value yourself.
I hate to say this - but I can't see this lasting if you continue to cty and obsess. I certainly wouldn't allow my son to go out with you!!!
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i mean he loves me alot and we will last and i did back up a little and not get mad as much as before anymore thank you alot
thank you for replying and i think ur right i do need to grow up i just dont know how to do it, what should i do to be better at this?? is there anyway i can get better i really really need to get better becuase he always tells me if i dont change my jealously we wont be able to move foward and i really want him to marry me i really love him :(
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Do you seriously have nothing at all that you can get involved in that you lose all sense of time?
Reading, surfing the internet for shoes, charity work, commenting here.... Anything at all, that allows time to pass when you don't think or text him.
What about hypnosis? Yoga? Writing very long detailed letters to him that you DON'T send, but tear up after spending hours writing them!! For goodness sake - anything!!
There's nothing worse than being suffocated by someone!! My friends all laugh coz my husband (22 years) wouldn't text or call me unless I disappeared for at least 3 days!! Nor would I text or call him - UNLESS I have something to say!!! eg. bring home sugar. Otherwise we'd have nothing to say for 4-6 hours when we are together each evening! GET IT?!
You're going to burn out this relationship and bore the guy into dumping you :o(
Resist calling / texting / fighting. Get another project instead of him eg. school work, homework, etc.
I really feel sorry for you that you are depending on this guy to occupy your time and amuse you. It is a massive burden to be responsible for someone else's happiness :o(
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im starting to change alot thanks for the advice