Oh my God!!! The more I read, the more I'm shocked!!!!!!
You don't even love him and you've tolerated all that crap?!?!
Get a divorce TODAY!!!
You just wrote a paragraph about the good qualities you have! He should be counting his blessings! He has a sweet hearted, talented, smart, fun and ambitious wife!! He is too blind because he is selfish!
You said like you feel that nobody cares about you except your Mom. I am sure this is not true; you're just feeling insecure because that brat you have at home makes you feel unloved. Action speaks louder than words. He may say he loves you, but from everything he does, seeems like the only person he loves is himself! In a twisted way too!
You do not need a man to feel safe and loved, dear. At least not now. I mean, you're still young! Get a divorce, go to college, go out with your friends, party hard, read a lot, travel around, enjoy life! Live!! You are barely surviving and that's really sad. It's as if you are married to a physically disabled man, who got disabled after marriage so you pity him and don't have the heart to leave him, so you sacrifice and live with him, serving him like a maid does to her master, only that he does not appreciate your sacrifice and devotion.
I'm sorry maybe I'm spamming you with my comments, one after the other, but this makes me really sad. You have so much potential and I hate to see wasted talent, eventhough I don't know you and will never do. It is just simply sad and frustrating.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are not weak, you're just giving up. Wake the hell up, and the comment above that someone wrote is very true. You're going to wake up one day, old and miserable. Luckily for you, you're still young and it's so not too late! Your life hasn't even began! You have SO much to do! God gave you this life as a gift and it is your responsibility to value it and make the best of it. Do that. You are throwing your life away. The privilege that God has given you, you are throwing it away. You do not have the right to do that to yourself and your life.
Go ahead and live it. Don't be afraid to be lonely. I'm sure you won't. The right time will come and you will find a man who will adore the ground you walk on, who will treat you royal and give you what you deserve. You will not end up lonely. And if you do not get remarried again, ever, I'm sure you will at least be a happy, proud, experienced and successful woman who lived her life fully.
Xxx
(I'm going to scroll down again, let's hope I won't find another shocking comment and bore you with my long comments!! :p I'm on my mobile so I'm reading the thread bit by bit)
Is it normal that im so dissapointed with my life?
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Oh my God!!! The more I read, the more I'm shocked!!!!!!
You don't even love him and you've tolerated all that crap?!?!
Get a divorce TODAY!!!
You just wrote a paragraph about the good qualities you have! He should be counting his blessings! He has a sweet hearted, talented, smart, fun and ambitious wife!! He is too blind because he is selfish!
You said like you feel that nobody cares about you except your Mom. I am sure this is not true; you're just feeling insecure because that brat you have at home makes you feel unloved. Action speaks louder than words. He may say he loves you, but from everything he does, seeems like the only person he loves is himself! In a twisted way too!
You do not need a man to feel safe and loved, dear. At least not now. I mean, you're still young! Get a divorce, go to college, go out with your friends, party hard, read a lot, travel around, enjoy life! Live!! You are barely surviving and that's really sad. It's as if you are married to a physically disabled man, who got disabled after marriage so you pity him and don't have the heart to leave him, so you sacrifice and live with him, serving him like a maid does to her master, only that he does not appreciate your sacrifice and devotion.
I'm sorry maybe I'm spamming you with my comments, one after the other, but this makes me really sad. You have so much potential and I hate to see wasted talent, eventhough I don't know you and will never do. It is just simply sad and frustrating.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are not weak, you're just giving up. Wake the hell up, and the comment above that someone wrote is very true. You're going to wake up one day, old and miserable. Luckily for you, you're still young and it's so not too late! Your life hasn't even began! You have SO much to do! God gave you this life as a gift and it is your responsibility to value it and make the best of it. Do that. You are throwing your life away. The privilege that God has given you, you are throwing it away. You do not have the right to do that to yourself and your life.
Go ahead and live it. Don't be afraid to be lonely. I'm sure you won't. The right time will come and you will find a man who will adore the ground you walk on, who will treat you royal and give you what you deserve. You will not end up lonely. And if you do not get remarried again, ever, I'm sure you will at least be a happy, proud, experienced and successful woman who lived her life fully.
Xxx
(I'm going to scroll down again, let's hope I won't find another shocking comment and bore you with my long comments!! :p I'm on my mobile so I'm reading the thread bit by bit)