My personality is not really agressive or "stand up & put your foot down" ish type anymore. Slowky my husband gas made me more submissif to him and respectab lk e by calling me mean names tears aho like a Billy or a Dictator or Hitler or the Teacher or the Queen or his Mother's name "Sheila"... It all hurt so bad that I stopped telling him like it is Years ago. Then when I tried that trick back on him when He was acting like a Queen himself & being Super bossy not letting me go any where without him, he said there Is a double standard and iAgreed to it on our wedding day (that I would submit to and obey him as God commands in the Bible). . . Im too scared to put my foot down and give him an altomatum.. He doesnt like those....
I'm reading the whole thread now and OH MY GOD!!
What is your husband's fucking problem?! First of all, you said he comes from a very rich family, right? Well, that means you can afford going on a get-away vacation. You BOTH seem like you need that. You make him sound like a workaholic, there fore he needs to goo on a vacation to refresh (not to mention, to pamper himself, since he is a man-baby) and you need it because you need to LIVE. Most importantly, you BOTH need it, as a couple. Couple therapy. Travel together, COMMUNICATE, without fighting or being bossy (since Mr. SeLfish-Man-baby doesn't like it) talk like adults; tell him how you're feeling. Be completely transparent. Spill your heart out. Tell him what you need to do and that your life should start over, from scratch because the one you're "living" now is extremely unhealthy. If he refuses to understand or cooperate, then get a freaking divorce. To hell with your pastor! To hell with all the bullshit that comes out of his mouth! Don't let them emotionally blackmail you with all this God-will-forsake-you nonesense! God is not a monster and I think that you're aware of that; it's just that people around you seemed to have good luck in destroying your self-esteem until you reached a point where you do not trust your own beliefs and stopped listening to your true inner-self.
As for being scared to "put your foot down", why? Since he does not physically hurt you, then why not? You said that "he doesn't like those." TOO FUCKING BAD! You hate your life!! He should be worrying about that!
A man who loves and respects his wife would turn the world upside down if he sees his beloved shedding one single tear! And you deserve such a man! You deserve to be treated royal. But it's time you stand up for yourself!!
Is it normal that im so dissapointed with my life?
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My personality is not really agressive or "stand up & put your foot down" ish type anymore. Slowky my husband gas made me more submissif to him and respectab lk e by calling me mean names tears aho like a Billy or a Dictator or Hitler or the Teacher or the Queen or his Mother's name "Sheila"... It all hurt so bad that I stopped telling him like it is Years ago. Then when I tried that trick back on him when He was acting like a Queen himself & being Super bossy not letting me go any where without him, he said there Is a double standard and iAgreed to it on our wedding day (that I would submit to and obey him as God commands in the Bible). . . Im too scared to put my foot down and give him an altomatum.. He doesnt like those....
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I'm reading the whole thread now and OH MY GOD!!
What is your husband's fucking problem?! First of all, you said he comes from a very rich family, right? Well, that means you can afford going on a get-away vacation. You BOTH seem like you need that. You make him sound like a workaholic, there fore he needs to goo on a vacation to refresh (not to mention, to pamper himself, since he is a man-baby) and you need it because you need to LIVE. Most importantly, you BOTH need it, as a couple. Couple therapy. Travel together, COMMUNICATE, without fighting or being bossy (since Mr. SeLfish-Man-baby doesn't like it) talk like adults; tell him how you're feeling. Be completely transparent. Spill your heart out. Tell him what you need to do and that your life should start over, from scratch because the one you're "living" now is extremely unhealthy. If he refuses to understand or cooperate, then get a freaking divorce. To hell with your pastor! To hell with all the bullshit that comes out of his mouth! Don't let them emotionally blackmail you with all this God-will-forsake-you nonesense! God is not a monster and I think that you're aware of that; it's just that people around you seemed to have good luck in destroying your self-esteem until you reached a point where you do not trust your own beliefs and stopped listening to your true inner-self.
As for being scared to "put your foot down", why? Since he does not physically hurt you, then why not? You said that "he doesn't like those." TOO FUCKING BAD! You hate your life!! He should be worrying about that!
A man who loves and respects his wife would turn the world upside down if he sees his beloved shedding one single tear! And you deserve such a man! You deserve to be treated royal. But it's time you stand up for yourself!!