Is it normal that im relieved my mom hates me?

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my mom told me a few months ago she wishes i was never born, and to go kill myself,etc. but i was relieved because here hating me is the only explaination for how shitty of a mom she's been.

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  • EccentricWeird2
    10 years ago | pl

    I agree with your mother wholeheartedly on this point.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago | pl

    A mum doesn't say that kind of thing just like this. You must be quite a child to her too.

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    • dude_Jones
      10 years ago | pl

      Stop glorify mothers. Some women hate the job with a passion.

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      • kelili
        10 years ago | pl

        We live in very different society.

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        • dude_Jones
          10 years ago | pl

          Your very different society includes a few bad mums as well.

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          • kelili
            10 years ago | pl

            Surely. I know a mum who steals food from her poor daughter and is always asking her money. She is an alcoholic but then later I learned that she had some real bad experience younger .

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  • hairyfairy
    10 years ago | pl

    Some women are just not suited for motherhood, & it`s time that society recognised that, instead of pressuring women into having children that they don`t want, & will end up resenting.

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  • q25t
    10 years ago | pl

    If you've been stressing out about if it's your fault or not, then yeah it's normal to feel relieved that this is finally just out in the open.

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  • dude_Jones
    10 years ago | pl

    What a relief. It's not you, now you're a free man (or woman).

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