is it normal that im not sure whether im..?

Of course not necessarily, it is impossible for us to set the diagnosis about her sexual orientation (asexuality) based on a few lines online. That is why I used the words "would" and "maybe".

I just have the impression that SOME people jump too quicky at the "asexual" terminology even if they are hetero/homo/bi....sexual just because they do not feel sexual desire, which might be sometimes misleading because asexuality as a sexual orientation should be stronger. As far as I know from the sexologists and their university textbooks and studies/articles published in professional scientific journals (not pop psychology), romantic attraction is linked with sexual orientation to a certain degree.

But I am not a professional and moreover, I am not a native speaker, so I might have missed some subtle meanings in the words used in the original post, but in general I would understand the terms "hot" and "crush" as potentially sexually "charged", but as I said I am not a native speaker... But I still think that low sexual desire or arousal disorders or temporary disinterest in sex should not be confused with asexuality as an orientation (and based on the confessions of self-diagnosed asexuals I have seen in some videos and discussions online I would say that unfortunately this is what sometimes happen but I really cannot say anything definite about this topic or about the OP).

Of course not necessarily, it is impossible for us to set the diagnosis about her sexual orientation (asexuality) based on a few lines online. That is why I used the words "would" and "maybe".

I just have the impression that SOME people jump too quicky at the "asexual" terminology even if they are hetero/homo/bi....sexual just because they do not feel sexual desire, which might be sometimes misleading because asexuality as a sexual orientation should be stronger. As far as I know from the sexologists and their university textbooks and studies/articles published in professional scientific journals (not pop psychology), romantic attraction is linked with sexual orientation to a certain degree.

But I am not a professional and moreover, I am not a native speaker, so I might have missed some subtle meanings in the words used in the original post, but in general I would understand the terms "hot" and "crush" as potentially sexually "charged", but as I said I am not a native speaker... But I still think that low sexual desire or arousal disorders or temporary disinterest in sex should not be confused with asexuality as an orientation (and based on the confessions of self-diagnosed asexuals I have seen in some videos and discussions online I would say that unfortunately this is what sometimes happen but I really cannot say anything definite about this topic or about the OP).

hmm yeah i think wow HOT like edward of twilight, though if i had the chane i wouldn't bang him lol