Because Physical and emotional attraction are seperate. Emotional attraction isn't linked to your sexual orientation, as every person is emotionally different. If it was they'd have to create a new term for every single person on earth.
But when we're talking about lesbian/straight/bi it's physical, and as such, not a choice. We can choose the kind of personality we like in people based on our beliefs, but we can't control the physical urge to mate. I couldn't stand this womans attitude, but I certainly wanted to have sex with her due to her physical beauty and my being heterosexual.
Is it normal that im not attracted to men but im not lesbian?
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Because Physical and emotional attraction are seperate. Emotional attraction isn't linked to your sexual orientation, as every person is emotionally different. If it was they'd have to create a new term for every single person on earth.
But when we're talking about lesbian/straight/bi it's physical, and as such, not a choice. We can choose the kind of personality we like in people based on our beliefs, but we can't control the physical urge to mate. I couldn't stand this womans attitude, but I certainly wanted to have sex with her due to her physical beauty and my being heterosexual.