Because Physical and emotional attraction are seperate. Emotional attraction isn't linked to your sexual orientation, as every person is emotionally different. If it was they'd have to create a new term for every single person on earth.
But when we're talking about lesbian/straight/bi it's physical, and as such, not a choice. We can choose the kind of personality we like in people based on our beliefs, but we can't control the physical urge to mate. I couldn't stand this womans attitude, but I certainly wanted to have sex with her due to her physical beauty and my being heterosexual.
Is it normal that im not attracted to men but im not lesbian?
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That's not how it works lol.
I knew a girl I couldn't stand, but that didn't change the fact that I found her attractive lol.
You can't choose attraction based on what kind of person they are. You can settle for someone based on it, but nothing else.
It lives down there, and it doesn't care.
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Maybe this person is pansexual. For me, If I can't stand someones personality, the attraction is non-existent.
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Because Physical and emotional attraction are seperate. Emotional attraction isn't linked to your sexual orientation, as every person is emotionally different. If it was they'd have to create a new term for every single person on earth.
But when we're talking about lesbian/straight/bi it's physical, and as such, not a choice. We can choose the kind of personality we like in people based on our beliefs, but we can't control the physical urge to mate. I couldn't stand this womans attitude, but I certainly wanted to have sex with her due to her physical beauty and my being heterosexual.