Is it normal that im not attracted to men but im not lesbian?

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  • KatieLiz
    10 years ago | pl

    Don't fret, maybe you're asexual. That doesn't mean you can't have relationships, it just means you don't develop sexual attractions.
    I have an asexual friend and she has a partner who she has sex with.
    There are all kinds if different layers and types of asexuality. Maybe google it and see if it rings true?

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago | pl

      Interesting but how is she still asexual if she has sex with a partner?

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      • jimrichy
        10 years ago | pl

        Sexuality refers to who/what a person is attracted to, not what they do and who they do it with.

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        • RoseIsabella
          10 years ago | pl

          But how can a person have sexual relations with someone if their not attracted to them!

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          • jimrichy
            10 years ago | pl

            Well it is possible. Men do it with women quite frequently tbh. In fact, heterosexual men do it with men. Sometimes actual attraction plays little or no part in sex.

            I imagine in this case that the person is in love with their partner and wants to express that love as well as please their partner and keep them satisfied.

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            • StarTeddy
              10 years ago | pl

              I think in that case she's aromantic but not asexual.

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            • RoseIsabella
              10 years ago | pl

              I guess if you say so. But I don't wanna be intimate with someone to whom I feel no attraction. I can dearly love a person I'm not attracted to as a friend but I don't care to show it with anything more than a hug. I've never been in love with someone I wasn't attracted to as well.

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