So over the past bit, she broke up with her boyfriend who which were not really friends anymore which was NOT related to me having a crush on his girlfriend, and me and the girl remained close. I've went thru a little relationship which turned out to be a bad choice and broke it off partially because I'm in love with the girl of my dreams.
Now I'm in a similar situation as before. Except that she doesn't have a boyfriend, and I once again confessed my love for her. When I confessed, I did it really poorly since I was kinda racing time, and I got a bad reaction. You see, when she broke up with her boyfriend we remained friends for a while, but she was finding interest in my roommate. So the thought of my cool roommate and my bestest friend and love of my life being together kinda shook me. So I confessed outright how much I wanted to be with her. BAM! She said she didn't think we'd be right anymore and blah blah blah. That hit me pretty hard, but I was mature enough to accept that and try to move on. our friendship didn't get destroyed, but defiantly drifted apart after that. But lately we've been talking a lot again, and were a lot closer (Talk about a roller-coaster ride right?). We've been hanging out a lot more frequently, in fact we've been hanging out really late then normal when its just the two of us. And I don't know if she's into me again or what ever. I'm guessing its my brain telling me what I want to hear, but I can't shake the idea that she's actually wanting to hook up. And I'm too scared to act on it again.
To me we seem to be doing more things then what I'd assume normal friendships would go, which was kinda normal for us to begin with. Examples would be little dates, mild flirtations, playing N64 drunk till really late in the morning, or even just enjoying ones company all night. She's even bringing up how she wants to be with the right guy, and continuously complimenting on how "amazingly awesome" we are to the rest of the world. And it seems to be that I'm the only one she's doing these things with. and while we were talking about relationships and the "one" She brought up that girls tend to become scared when someone of significance catches them off guard by asking to become closer, and I don't know if thats a hint for anything. So I am once again confused on how I should act on this. Help?
Is it normal that Im in love with my best friend and still be friends?
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I thought I'd update on this situation.
So over the past bit, she broke up with her boyfriend who which were not really friends anymore which was NOT related to me having a crush on his girlfriend, and me and the girl remained close. I've went thru a little relationship which turned out to be a bad choice and broke it off partially because I'm in love with the girl of my dreams.
Now I'm in a similar situation as before. Except that she doesn't have a boyfriend, and I once again confessed my love for her. When I confessed, I did it really poorly since I was kinda racing time, and I got a bad reaction. You see, when she broke up with her boyfriend we remained friends for a while, but she was finding interest in my roommate. So the thought of my cool roommate and my bestest friend and love of my life being together kinda shook me. So I confessed outright how much I wanted to be with her. BAM! She said she didn't think we'd be right anymore and blah blah blah. That hit me pretty hard, but I was mature enough to accept that and try to move on. our friendship didn't get destroyed, but defiantly drifted apart after that. But lately we've been talking a lot again, and were a lot closer (Talk about a roller-coaster ride right?). We've been hanging out a lot more frequently, in fact we've been hanging out really late then normal when its just the two of us. And I don't know if she's into me again or what ever. I'm guessing its my brain telling me what I want to hear, but I can't shake the idea that she's actually wanting to hook up. And I'm too scared to act on it again.
To me we seem to be doing more things then what I'd assume normal friendships would go, which was kinda normal for us to begin with. Examples would be little dates, mild flirtations, playing N64 drunk till really late in the morning, or even just enjoying ones company all night. She's even bringing up how she wants to be with the right guy, and continuously complimenting on how "amazingly awesome" we are to the rest of the world. And it seems to be that I'm the only one she's doing these things with. and while we were talking about relationships and the "one" She brought up that girls tend to become scared when someone of significance catches them off guard by asking to become closer, and I don't know if thats a hint for anything. So I am once again confused on how I should act on this. Help?