Why are you with someone to whom you're not physically attracted? You're not "in love" with this person, you love him as a platonic friend. Your relationship is a lie! No wonder you're depressed. Staying in this relationship is not fair to your so called boyfriend. You know deep down inside that your using him.
Im not using him ,although perhaps maybe i am dating him tokill my lonliness,hes my only friend and my best friend...i wouldnt be sad if i broke up with him and we really stayed tight friends ..but it will never be like that he said itd be too hard being friends and i cant handle losing him completely...
You have gotten yourself in a pickle there, girl. Sounds like your learning a painful lesson too. Dating and, sex especially, change everything. Even if there was no genuine physical attraction on your part the shared experiences were still had and it's out there, you can't change that or take back the past. More than likely he will feel bitter and used if and when you tell him the truth. Hopefully your friendship will survive this but if not you will have to accept the outcome and respect his feelings.
Is it normal that im in love but not happy?
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Why are you with someone to whom you're not physically attracted? You're not "in love" with this person, you love him as a platonic friend. Your relationship is a lie! No wonder you're depressed. Staying in this relationship is not fair to your so called boyfriend. You know deep down inside that your using him.
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Im not using him ,although perhaps maybe i am dating him tokill my lonliness,hes my only friend and my best friend...i wouldnt be sad if i broke up with him and we really stayed tight friends ..but it will never be like that he said itd be too hard being friends and i cant handle losing him completely...
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You have gotten yourself in a pickle there, girl. Sounds like your learning a painful lesson too. Dating and, sex especially, change everything. Even if there was no genuine physical attraction on your part the shared experiences were still had and it's out there, you can't change that or take back the past. More than likely he will feel bitter and used if and when you tell him the truth. Hopefully your friendship will survive this but if not you will have to accept the outcome and respect his feelings.