First of all, please stop hurting yourself over this. It is not worth it. Think about it: if you can't love yourself how can you expect anyone else to love you in return?
I went through the EXACT same thing. I was told that I was an amazing girlfriend but being dumped left and right by everyone. I also went through a very dark, self-destructive period. Looking back, it's very upsetting because all of the time I spent beating myself up could have been spent on improving who I was as a person.
What you need to do, is re-evaluate how you are as a boyfriend. Ask yourself some tough questions: Were you not faithful? Were you too needy? Did you have a negative personality? If you did anything that could have jeopardized your past relationships, really keep an eye on that. If there's any behavior that you need to change, this is the time to change it.
Right now, you need to work on YOU. Once you've done this, then you can turn that energy on the world. Go out and date. Be open to meeting different women. Take it slow. Once you are secure in who you are, that confidence will radiate from you onto the women you see, and there will be someone out there to love you for everything you are.
is it normal that im always told im a great bf but everyone dumps me?
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First of all, please stop hurting yourself over this. It is not worth it. Think about it: if you can't love yourself how can you expect anyone else to love you in return?
I went through the EXACT same thing. I was told that I was an amazing girlfriend but being dumped left and right by everyone. I also went through a very dark, self-destructive period. Looking back, it's very upsetting because all of the time I spent beating myself up could have been spent on improving who I was as a person.
What you need to do, is re-evaluate how you are as a boyfriend. Ask yourself some tough questions: Were you not faithful? Were you too needy? Did you have a negative personality? If you did anything that could have jeopardized your past relationships, really keep an eye on that. If there's any behavior that you need to change, this is the time to change it.
Right now, you need to work on YOU. Once you've done this, then you can turn that energy on the world. Go out and date. Be open to meeting different women. Take it slow. Once you are secure in who you are, that confidence will radiate from you onto the women you see, and there will be someone out there to love you for everything you are.
Just be patient! Love is out there!