Well you probably are a great boyfriend but most men and women today are simply looking for a fling. So the people like you who are serious are going to get crushed because no one else is taking it seriously.
There could be a crowd of 80 and only 10 people are willing to be committed in a relationship. Since those other 70 just see it as a fling they really don't care about how the person they are playing really feels about it.
So you are going to keep running into these people who simply do not give a shit and wonder what you are doing wrong. It is probably not your fault at all but you simply have old values that no one seems to care about in this day and age.
I wish more people had those type of values but I guess that is too much to wish for in this day and age. I personally if I were you would just give up dating. This has happened to me several times and the excuse for leaving was "Oh I got bored" after 3-4 months of dating. This seems to be a very common occurrence and you are not the only one. Dont blame yourself for other peoples poor values.
is it normal that im always told im a great bf but everyone dumps me?
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Well you probably are a great boyfriend but most men and women today are simply looking for a fling. So the people like you who are serious are going to get crushed because no one else is taking it seriously.
There could be a crowd of 80 and only 10 people are willing to be committed in a relationship. Since those other 70 just see it as a fling they really don't care about how the person they are playing really feels about it.
So you are going to keep running into these people who simply do not give a shit and wonder what you are doing wrong. It is probably not your fault at all but you simply have old values that no one seems to care about in this day and age.
I wish more people had those type of values but I guess that is too much to wish for in this day and age. I personally if I were you would just give up dating. This has happened to me several times and the excuse for leaving was "Oh I got bored" after 3-4 months of dating. This seems to be a very common occurrence and you are not the only one. Dont blame yourself for other peoples poor values.