I assure you that he won't complain if you show him a little or tease him. I suggest that you hold off on showing him any private skin (showing any skin of your breasts or genitals or butt) unless you're fully prepared for any possible repercussions it could have. I also suggest that you hold off on having a sexual relationship with him until you two have fully discussed your futures and about if you get pregnant and so forth. I would highly suggest that you follow this order: 1) Discuss the topics I just mentioned.... 2) If you're both comfortable with the responses you've given each other for the discussion, then slowly work your way towards a sexual relationship... 3) Go at a pace that YOU'RE comfortable with while not being pusy or forceful if he's a little hesitant... 4) Once you're both ready, go for it.
I highly recommend to wait for sex until marriage, but I'm just a little old fashioned. IF you two do up end having sex, MAKE SURE TO BE SAFE AND USE CONDOMS if you're not wanting to get pregnant (good idea to combo birth control with condoms so as to have double protection in the event the condom breaks and neither of you notice until afterwards.
If you're not entirely sure as to where you should start, simply ask him questions about his preferences. If you find out he's fine with your size but are still in confident about it, you could try maybe asking him to touch them but not really pushing sex (that is if you're okay with the idea of him touching you).
I'm sure I'm going to catch some flak for this comment, but I'm just trying to give her some advice or support and try and help build her self confidence.
To finish this all off.... BOOBS AND BUTTS AND ALL OF THAT ARE NOT EVERYTHING THERE IS TO ATTRACTION. Society is twisted and corrupted for destroying what beauty should be, natural beauty. Society and the media are basically forcing the idea that to be beautiful you need to have big breasts, big butts, wear 35 pounds of makeup and dress scantily. That idea of beauty is what's destroying many girls' confidence in their own body and making them doubt themselves. And before anyone gives me crap about implants and makeup, there isn't anything wrong with a tiny bit of makeup. If someone had just fought breast cancer and had to get a mastectomy or a double mastectomy, they have a right to get back what was stolen from them. Being as close to natural is true beauty. Be confident in what you're born with.
Sorry for the rant. I felt it was a little related to the topic and kinda felt I had to put that out there that there are good guys out there that aren't total pigs and want only sex and society's/mass media's idea of "beauty".
Is it normal that Im afraid to let my boyfriend see my boobs?
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I assure you that he won't complain if you show him a little or tease him. I suggest that you hold off on showing him any private skin (showing any skin of your breasts or genitals or butt) unless you're fully prepared for any possible repercussions it could have. I also suggest that you hold off on having a sexual relationship with him until you two have fully discussed your futures and about if you get pregnant and so forth. I would highly suggest that you follow this order: 1) Discuss the topics I just mentioned.... 2) If you're both comfortable with the responses you've given each other for the discussion, then slowly work your way towards a sexual relationship... 3) Go at a pace that YOU'RE comfortable with while not being pusy or forceful if he's a little hesitant... 4) Once you're both ready, go for it.
I highly recommend to wait for sex until marriage, but I'm just a little old fashioned. IF you two do up end having sex, MAKE SURE TO BE SAFE AND USE CONDOMS if you're not wanting to get pregnant (good idea to combo birth control with condoms so as to have double protection in the event the condom breaks and neither of you notice until afterwards.
If you're not entirely sure as to where you should start, simply ask him questions about his preferences. If you find out he's fine with your size but are still in confident about it, you could try maybe asking him to touch them but not really pushing sex (that is if you're okay with the idea of him touching you).
I'm sure I'm going to catch some flak for this comment, but I'm just trying to give her some advice or support and try and help build her self confidence.
To finish this all off.... BOOBS AND BUTTS AND ALL OF THAT ARE NOT EVERYTHING THERE IS TO ATTRACTION. Society is twisted and corrupted for destroying what beauty should be, natural beauty. Society and the media are basically forcing the idea that to be beautiful you need to have big breasts, big butts, wear 35 pounds of makeup and dress scantily. That idea of beauty is what's destroying many girls' confidence in their own body and making them doubt themselves. And before anyone gives me crap about implants and makeup, there isn't anything wrong with a tiny bit of makeup. If someone had just fought breast cancer and had to get a mastectomy or a double mastectomy, they have a right to get back what was stolen from them. Being as close to natural is true beauty. Be confident in what you're born with.
Sorry for the rant. I felt it was a little related to the topic and kinda felt I had to put that out there that there are good guys out there that aren't total pigs and want only sex and society's/mass media's idea of "beauty".
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I agree with you that's a great comment.
seriously dude the sex talk all you had was say you're normal.