But is that not the point of the question? The OP is saying that, rather than hunting for strange and needing a condom, they would rather just be with someone that they trusted enough to fly free with.
They never mentioned about being with someone they trusted. Not even a hint. But in all fairness, they didn't say anything about sleeping around with strangers either, which I have nothing against as long as condoms are used.
He just used the term "hooking up". I don't know what country you are from, and I know it's an American term but over here, hooking up pretty much means sleeping around.
I think what I said is due to misinterpretation on misunderstanding of slang terms.
I can concede that we may have interpreted the question differently. I am from the US as well and I have heard "hooking up" used both ways - sleeping around and committed relationships having intercourse - granted I am in the south where what is said very rarely has any bearing on what was meant. I will also concede, after a second reading, that the OP did not really make himself clear.
What I meant was that if I'm about to get with a girl, and she has expressed to me that she isn't on birth control, I'd rather not have sex. I realize there are flaws with birth control, but still. Std's are not that common here, I live in a relatively small southern town.
Is it normal that I would rather not have sex than use a condom?
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But is that not the point of the question? The OP is saying that, rather than hunting for strange and needing a condom, they would rather just be with someone that they trusted enough to fly free with.
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They never mentioned about being with someone they trusted. Not even a hint. But in all fairness, they didn't say anything about sleeping around with strangers either, which I have nothing against as long as condoms are used.
He just used the term "hooking up". I don't know what country you are from, and I know it's an American term but over here, hooking up pretty much means sleeping around.
I think what I said is due to misinterpretation on misunderstanding of slang terms.
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I can concede that we may have interpreted the question differently. I am from the US as well and I have heard "hooking up" used both ways - sleeping around and committed relationships having intercourse - granted I am in the south where what is said very rarely has any bearing on what was meant. I will also concede, after a second reading, that the OP did not really make himself clear.
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What I meant was that if I'm about to get with a girl, and she has expressed to me that she isn't on birth control, I'd rather not have sex. I realize there are flaws with birth control, but still. Std's are not that common here, I live in a relatively small southern town.