I have heard that a lot of men losing their erection because of condoms. It is normal. But you cannot go sleeping around without a condom. She may be protected from pregnancy, but what about STI's/STD's? They can cause you, or her, a lot of trouble.
I think you either use a condom or you forever have to settle into stable relationships when both of you are tested and know you are both clean. You cannot spread your oats without using condoms.
But is that not the point of the question? The OP is saying that, rather than hunting for strange and needing a condom, they would rather just be with someone that they trusted enough to fly free with.
They never mentioned about being with someone they trusted. Not even a hint. But in all fairness, they didn't say anything about sleeping around with strangers either, which I have nothing against as long as condoms are used.
He just used the term "hooking up". I don't know what country you are from, and I know it's an American term but over here, hooking up pretty much means sleeping around.
I think what I said is due to misinterpretation on misunderstanding of slang terms.
I can concede that we may have interpreted the question differently. I am from the US as well and I have heard "hooking up" used both ways - sleeping around and committed relationships having intercourse - granted I am in the south where what is said very rarely has any bearing on what was meant. I will also concede, after a second reading, that the OP did not really make himself clear.
What I meant was that if I'm about to get with a girl, and she has expressed to me that she isn't on birth control, I'd rather not have sex. I realize there are flaws with birth control, but still. Std's are not that common here, I live in a relatively small southern town.
Is it normal that I would rather not have sex than use a condom?
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I have heard that a lot of men losing their erection because of condoms. It is normal. But you cannot go sleeping around without a condom. She may be protected from pregnancy, but what about STI's/STD's? They can cause you, or her, a lot of trouble.
I think you either use a condom or you forever have to settle into stable relationships when both of you are tested and know you are both clean. You cannot spread your oats without using condoms.
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But is that not the point of the question? The OP is saying that, rather than hunting for strange and needing a condom, they would rather just be with someone that they trusted enough to fly free with.
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They never mentioned about being with someone they trusted. Not even a hint. But in all fairness, they didn't say anything about sleeping around with strangers either, which I have nothing against as long as condoms are used.
He just used the term "hooking up". I don't know what country you are from, and I know it's an American term but over here, hooking up pretty much means sleeping around.
I think what I said is due to misinterpretation on misunderstanding of slang terms.
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I can concede that we may have interpreted the question differently. I am from the US as well and I have heard "hooking up" used both ways - sleeping around and committed relationships having intercourse - granted I am in the south where what is said very rarely has any bearing on what was meant. I will also concede, after a second reading, that the OP did not really make himself clear.
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What I meant was that if I'm about to get with a girl, and she has expressed to me that she isn't on birth control, I'd rather not have sex. I realize there are flaws with birth control, but still. Std's are not that common here, I live in a relatively small southern town.