Ok first things first...being a housewife doesn't make you lazy. Secondly, it doesn't make you selfish, quite the opposite in my opinion.
It's hard work being at home and doing housework, meals etc as well as take care of children.
I'm at home with my 2 year old because I chose to and my husband wanted me to.
I have a little baking business I do from home home, so that gives me something else to do.
Sometimes I wish I worked because the house looks like a toy bomb has gone off, or my daughter wont listen to me or take a nap, but at the end of the day, I want to raise my own children, not someone with a childcare certificate.
It's your decision. I don't know if you have kids yet but if/when you do, make sure you have friends (with kids) or family around, or join a mums or play group so you don't go insane. It can be very lonely and isolating, but VERY rewarding in the end.
Yeah, I was just tryin to say that im not lazy...not that i think being a housewife is lazy..Sorry if i worded it wrong I didn't mean to offend you...thank you for your post it was reassuring...:)
Is it normal that i would rather be a housewife...
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Ok first things first...being a housewife doesn't make you lazy. Secondly, it doesn't make you selfish, quite the opposite in my opinion.
It's hard work being at home and doing housework, meals etc as well as take care of children.
I'm at home with my 2 year old because I chose to and my husband wanted me to.
I have a little baking business I do from home home, so that gives me something else to do.
Sometimes I wish I worked because the house looks like a toy bomb has gone off, or my daughter wont listen to me or take a nap, but at the end of the day, I want to raise my own children, not someone with a childcare certificate.
It's your decision. I don't know if you have kids yet but if/when you do, make sure you have friends (with kids) or family around, or join a mums or play group so you don't go insane. It can be very lonely and isolating, but VERY rewarding in the end.
Good luck!
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Yeah, I was just tryin to say that im not lazy...not that i think being a housewife is lazy..Sorry if i worded it wrong I didn't mean to offend you...thank you for your post it was reassuring...:)