I knew a girl like your best friend at one point in my life. She also had a really good friend who she would be intimate with, just like you and your bf. She was bisexual. What was special about her was her ability to make her friends literally fall head over heels over her, almost to the point of sexual love. Her best friend was also a girl who was tomboyish. So yes, consider the fact that you may be bi-curious and that you were in love with her. Now that she no longer reciprocates, you're devastated. But don't worry hon, it's very likely that you're not the problem. That girl I knew had abandonment issues when she was younger, so she's very good at attaching to people and make them attached to her, only to fear abandonment again. So she had a habit of breaking off relationships and not committing. Hope I enlightened you.
Devastated is an understatement I find myself thinking about her everyday and wondering why she's just disappeared and is so distant like we were never friends. I know I shouldn't want to be fiends with someone who acts that way towards me but I just can't let it go. Keep wondering if I'm to blame even though I know I'm not because I tried fixing things between us. Thank you for your comment it did help do you still talk to that friend? Did she stop being that way?
Is it normal that I wonder if I'm gay because of my best friend
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I knew a girl like your best friend at one point in my life. She also had a really good friend who she would be intimate with, just like you and your bf. She was bisexual. What was special about her was her ability to make her friends literally fall head over heels over her, almost to the point of sexual love. Her best friend was also a girl who was tomboyish. So yes, consider the fact that you may be bi-curious and that you were in love with her. Now that she no longer reciprocates, you're devastated. But don't worry hon, it's very likely that you're not the problem. That girl I knew had abandonment issues when she was younger, so she's very good at attaching to people and make them attached to her, only to fear abandonment again. So she had a habit of breaking off relationships and not committing. Hope I enlightened you.
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Devastated is an understatement I find myself thinking about her everyday and wondering why she's just disappeared and is so distant like we were never friends. I know I shouldn't want to be fiends with someone who acts that way towards me but I just can't let it go. Keep wondering if I'm to blame even though I know I'm not because I tried fixing things between us. Thank you for your comment it did help do you still talk to that friend? Did she stop being that way?