I'm female but have received anal sex. Advice to giving it is to go slowly, use way more lube than you think is necessary and prepare your partner using fingers or toys. DO NOT dive right in, there's several rings of muscle that can have them limping for days if you just try to thrust right through.
As for receiving, for the first few times it may be better if you're in control of the speed of the first entry, relax and try not to tense. Don't be afraid to tell your partner if you need more lube or if you want him to slow down or any other thing TELL HIM.
If it feels good, you have enough lube. If you feel kinda like you're taking a dump, you don't have enough lube (gross but true)
Also if you're bottoming try having a shower and cleaning a bit beforehand, or using an enema.
Is it normal that I wonder about anal?
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I'm female but have received anal sex. Advice to giving it is to go slowly, use way more lube than you think is necessary and prepare your partner using fingers or toys. DO NOT dive right in, there's several rings of muscle that can have them limping for days if you just try to thrust right through.
As for receiving, for the first few times it may be better if you're in control of the speed of the first entry, relax and try not to tense. Don't be afraid to tell your partner if you need more lube or if you want him to slow down or any other thing TELL HIM.
If it feels good, you have enough lube. If you feel kinda like you're taking a dump, you don't have enough lube (gross but true)
Also if you're bottoming try having a shower and cleaning a bit beforehand, or using an enema.