Oh my god, I have this problem too and I hate it! When I'm at my boyfriend's place, I prefer it if he asked me to do something or go out somewhere first. And I prefer it if someone would message or text me before I would them, especially if I really care about that person. With my friends, I normally don't like to ask them to hang out. Same for my family. But I know it's because I'm too scared to be rejected or feel even more unwanted. :( It's not totally taking over my life though but it's enough to make some people feel like I don't care.
Is it normal that I won't go anywhere uninvited?
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Oh my god, I have this problem too and I hate it! When I'm at my boyfriend's place, I prefer it if he asked me to do something or go out somewhere first. And I prefer it if someone would message or text me before I would them, especially if I really care about that person. With my friends, I normally don't like to ask them to hang out. Same for my family. But I know it's because I'm too scared to be rejected or feel even more unwanted. :( It's not totally taking over my life though but it's enough to make some people feel like I don't care.