As polite as that is, it could be perceived as a lack of wanting to visit your family or friends. Thus, there is a potential that they would feel unloved.
I can sort of understand where you're coming from. I think you should at least tell these people that you love their company. Rejection is scary, asking someone to hang and be said no to can be bad. But think of it like this, if they're busy and can't hang, that doesn't mean they don't love you, it's just that they're busy. If you want to keep your family and friends then I think you're gonna have to push back the fear and force yourself to call these people and ask to hang. Tell them how much you love them.
Is it normal that I won't go anywhere uninvited?
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As polite as that is, it could be perceived as a lack of wanting to visit your family or friends. Thus, there is a potential that they would feel unloved.
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That is exactly what is happening :(
But I can't seem to get over my fear of rejection/interferance or whatever it is :(
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I can sort of understand where you're coming from. I think you should at least tell these people that you love their company. Rejection is scary, asking someone to hang and be said no to can be bad. But think of it like this, if they're busy and can't hang, that doesn't mean they don't love you, it's just that they're busy. If you want to keep your family and friends then I think you're gonna have to push back the fear and force yourself to call these people and ask to hang. Tell them how much you love them.