In all seriousness, there is no magic cure. It'd be easier to overcome your social ineptitude than to rid yourself of the desire for company. There are plenty of socially awkward people out there in exactly the same boat as you, would they not make good company?
If you think you lack common ground with the people you're trying to talk to, find somewhere to meet people where you inherently have common ground. This is where hobbies and social clubs come in. If you already have a shared interest, you don't need to put effort in - you can talk casually about the things you like, and not force or fein anything. So maybe look in to a local club? Just a thought.
And sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but I don't think you'll find a scientific or medical solution to your problem.
IIN that I wish to no longer feel the desire to be around others?
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Don't give up, talking to people is easy!
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In all seriousness, there is no magic cure. It'd be easier to overcome your social ineptitude than to rid yourself of the desire for company. There are plenty of socially awkward people out there in exactly the same boat as you, would they not make good company?
If you think you lack common ground with the people you're trying to talk to, find somewhere to meet people where you inherently have common ground. This is where hobbies and social clubs come in. If you already have a shared interest, you don't need to put effort in - you can talk casually about the things you like, and not force or fein anything. So maybe look in to a local club? Just a thought.
And sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but I don't think you'll find a scientific or medical solution to your problem.