You are spot on about how the children are supposed to come first no matter what. They're supposed to matter more than anything, yet they're being put aside by these desperate people. I wish more people had your mindset instead of being desperate.
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Every one of my children was planned. I think that can make a difference. I made a conscious decision to bring them into the world. I guess if you're not very careful about contraception and keep accidentally having kids you have the option of taking it less seriously. But hey, no one is forcing you to have kids. You could use contraception or not have full sex lol...
My parents were a bit shit so I've always been very cognisant of the impact of parenting. I knew I never wanted to be like them and if I ever had babies I wouldn't let them down.
So in a weird way my terrible parents made me into a good parent lol.
Is it normal that I wish that people couldn't have multiple accounts?
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You are spot on about how the children are supposed to come first no matter what. They're supposed to matter more than anything, yet they're being put aside by these desperate people. I wish more people had your mindset instead of being desperate.
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Every one of my children was planned. I think that can make a difference. I made a conscious decision to bring them into the world. I guess if you're not very careful about contraception and keep accidentally having kids you have the option of taking it less seriously. But hey, no one is forcing you to have kids. You could use contraception or not have full sex lol...
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That is awesome! That's the way it should be!
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My parents were a bit shit so I've always been very cognisant of the impact of parenting. I knew I never wanted to be like them and if I ever had babies I wouldn't let them down.
So in a weird way my terrible parents made me into a good parent lol.
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Maybe you're just naturally good inside? ☺
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Maybe. Or maybe there's a voice deep inside me yelling "THE HUMAN RACE MUST CONTINUE. MY OFFSPRING MUST SURVIVE AND BE SUCCESSFUL"
Either way it results in my kids having a nice childhood so all is well lol.
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I've never actually heard that voice. I did want kids with my first ex-husband, but unfortunately he proved to be less than true.