That's really sad. I find it tedious when you meet people who talk endlessly about their kids, but to hide them from people is awful. If anything ever happened between my husband and I and I started dating again I would tell people on the first date that I had kids and make it clear that if we were to ever get serious they would be part of the package. Not just because it's better to be honest but also because I'm proud of them and I love them, and I wouldn't be interested in any kind of relationship with someone who wasn't prepared to accept that my kids are the most important thing in my life. If that meant I didn't get laid much then whatever, it's really not that important in the grand scheme of things. You're a pretty shitty parent if you pretend they don't exist just in the hopes of getting some sex. That's such a depressing life for your kids.
You are spot on about how the children are supposed to come first no matter what. They're supposed to matter more than anything, yet they're being put aside by these desperate people. I wish more people had your mindset instead of being desperate.
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Every one of my children was planned. I think that can make a difference. I made a conscious decision to bring them into the world. I guess if you're not very careful about contraception and keep accidentally having kids you have the option of taking it less seriously. But hey, no one is forcing you to have kids. You could use contraception or not have full sex lol...
My parents were a bit shit so I've always been very cognisant of the impact of parenting. I knew I never wanted to be like them and if I ever had babies I wouldn't let them down.
So in a weird way my terrible parents made me into a good parent lol.
See I think they must not love their kids very much if they're willing to lie about having them. I mean as far as the kids are concerned, what good can come of someone with kids hooking up with, and dating someone who doesn't want kids, especially someone else's kids? I think the people who lie, and say they don't have kids when they do are being shitty not only to the people they're lying to, but also to their kids. Ugh, it's just awful all around.
Desperation, and deception are the stuff of vile disease.
Exactly. What's the point in getting with someone that's going to resent the kids? The children are supposed to be the first priority in their life, yet to these desperate people they're not. Lol
Oh hey, heads up: Nikclaire was complaining about you blocking her and pretending to not know why and act innocent. I called her out on it and reminded her of how she accused you of being a man. The comment disappeared and(if I'm not mistaken) the account seems to have vanished too. So if some new lgbt person tries to befriend you, it's probably that nutcase. XD
Thanks Sugar! Yeah, I just really grew tired of the bullcrap of dealing with a person who thought it was okay to call me a cow, and say I was a man. Also that person used to get intoxicated, and then send me private messages of an inappropriate, and sexual nature. It was very annoying, and so I blocked the person.
I don't know how people can act in a really stupid, and obnoxious way, and not expect to be blocked. 🤷🏻♀️
Is it normal that I wish that people couldn't have multiple accounts?
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Thank you. I'm glad it amused you. Not having kids was the thing people seemed to lie about the most. XD
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That's really sad. I find it tedious when you meet people who talk endlessly about their kids, but to hide them from people is awful. If anything ever happened between my husband and I and I started dating again I would tell people on the first date that I had kids and make it clear that if we were to ever get serious they would be part of the package. Not just because it's better to be honest but also because I'm proud of them and I love them, and I wouldn't be interested in any kind of relationship with someone who wasn't prepared to accept that my kids are the most important thing in my life. If that meant I didn't get laid much then whatever, it's really not that important in the grand scheme of things. You're a pretty shitty parent if you pretend they don't exist just in the hopes of getting some sex. That's such a depressing life for your kids.
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You are spot on about how the children are supposed to come first no matter what. They're supposed to matter more than anything, yet they're being put aside by these desperate people. I wish more people had your mindset instead of being desperate.
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Every one of my children was planned. I think that can make a difference. I made a conscious decision to bring them into the world. I guess if you're not very careful about contraception and keep accidentally having kids you have the option of taking it less seriously. But hey, no one is forcing you to have kids. You could use contraception or not have full sex lol...
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That is awesome! That's the way it should be!
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My parents were a bit shit so I've always been very cognisant of the impact of parenting. I knew I never wanted to be like them and if I ever had babies I wouldn't let them down.
So in a weird way my terrible parents made me into a good parent lol.
See I think they must not love their kids very much if they're willing to lie about having them. I mean as far as the kids are concerned, what good can come of someone with kids hooking up with, and dating someone who doesn't want kids, especially someone else's kids? I think the people who lie, and say they don't have kids when they do are being shitty not only to the people they're lying to, but also to their kids. Ugh, it's just awful all around.
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Exactly. What's the point in getting with someone that's going to resent the kids? The children are supposed to be the first priority in their life, yet to these desperate people they're not. Lol
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Some people are just awful parents, and plain awful people.
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Oh hey, heads up: Nikclaire was complaining about you blocking her and pretending to not know why and act innocent. I called her out on it and reminded her of how she accused you of being a man. The comment disappeared and(if I'm not mistaken) the account seems to have vanished too. So if some new lgbt person tries to befriend you, it's probably that nutcase. XD
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Thanks Sugar! Yeah, I just really grew tired of the bullcrap of dealing with a person who thought it was okay to call me a cow, and say I was a man. Also that person used to get intoxicated, and then send me private messages of an inappropriate, and sexual nature. It was very annoying, and so I blocked the person.
I don't know how people can act in a really stupid, and obnoxious way, and not expect to be blocked. 🤷🏻♀️