whoa. tons of comments since i posted last! hard to believe it was only a few days ago! i was a bit worried since all the previous posts were from years ago but looks like there are still people who get me and feel the same way. ok now here is an update. there are only 3 and a half more days of school left! im feeling more anxious then ever to ask my teacher for her personal phone number. what happened from the time i posted last until now was horrible. my bff and i got into a huge fight since we pretty much lost everything we had in common. my councelor suggested to try new things together so i did. but my friend didnt want to. she only wanted to do what she liked and she officially ended our friendship! i ofc went straight to my teacher to talk to her and it did help alot. but later that week i get called to the counselor office the counselor is friendly but i dont trust her 100%. but she speaks to me and tells me that my used to be bff came to speak to her. and i was immediately like uh oh. but the session was fine. except for the fact my counselor told me my friend thought i was too obsessed with my teacher and that she wanted it to be made clear that we keep things on a professional level. but now im super nervous to ask my teacher for her personal phone number! will she even give it to me! will she be mad if i ask last day of school? does she want to keep our relationship professional? because if so i dont think ill ever see her again! im going to highschool next year! and she has taught middle school forever! what am i going to do and if i ask how do i ask?
Ok look I wish I could told you to go for it and ask for her number, but I know I would never been able to do it myself :( it's like that I always want to be next to her and talk to her, but exactly because of that and bc I adore and appreciate her so much, and bc my feelings for her (not sexual feelings of course) are so strong, bc all of that things it is just impossible to talk to her!!! I can't explain it! I get so shy around her! It actually began after something meaningful happened between us, something that was supposed to bring us together, and it really did, but only with the emotional aspect! In the aspect of the communication between us- it just hit. If before that we could laugh together and stuff, now I just can't do it! Anyway, I think the fact you find it hard to ask for her number, points to the fact that she really mean a lot to you. So trust me when I tell you that I know how difficult it can be, but if you won't do it you just will never forgive yourself for that!!!!
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whoa. tons of comments since i posted last! hard to believe it was only a few days ago! i was a bit worried since all the previous posts were from years ago but looks like there are still people who get me and feel the same way. ok now here is an update. there are only 3 and a half more days of school left! im feeling more anxious then ever to ask my teacher for her personal phone number. what happened from the time i posted last until now was horrible. my bff and i got into a huge fight since we pretty much lost everything we had in common. my councelor suggested to try new things together so i did. but my friend didnt want to. she only wanted to do what she liked and she officially ended our friendship! i ofc went straight to my teacher to talk to her and it did help alot. but later that week i get called to the counselor office the counselor is friendly but i dont trust her 100%. but she speaks to me and tells me that my used to be bff came to speak to her. and i was immediately like uh oh. but the session was fine. except for the fact my counselor told me my friend thought i was too obsessed with my teacher and that she wanted it to be made clear that we keep things on a professional level. but now im super nervous to ask my teacher for her personal phone number! will she even give it to me! will she be mad if i ask last day of school? does she want to keep our relationship professional? because if so i dont think ill ever see her again! im going to highschool next year! and she has taught middle school forever! what am i going to do and if i ask how do i ask?
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Ok look I wish I could told you to go for it and ask for her number, but I know I would never been able to do it myself :( it's like that I always want to be next to her and talk to her, but exactly because of that and bc I adore and appreciate her so much, and bc my feelings for her (not sexual feelings of course) are so strong, bc all of that things it is just impossible to talk to her!!! I can't explain it! I get so shy around her! It actually began after something meaningful happened between us, something that was supposed to bring us together, and it really did, but only with the emotional aspect! In the aspect of the communication between us- it just hit. If before that we could laugh together and stuff, now I just can't do it! Anyway, I think the fact you find it hard to ask for her number, points to the fact that she really mean a lot to you. So trust me when I tell you that I know how difficult it can be, but if you won't do it you just will never forgive yourself for that!!!!